Is it too late for NC?

[mariahbalenciaga]

Some insight after work.

My time with him was a taster of what my future would be like

I’d never trust him again
And I’d never have any money

I bought myself something cute today for the first time since I’d met him.

I don’t want him back. I’m just lonely.

[patricia12]

@mariahbalenciaga – I’m so sorry you’re sad and lonely, but you are better off without him. Someday you will meet a wonderful guy who loves you and treats you like an angel. Try to meet guys through church or maybe a dating site. And be very careful by observing their words and actions over time. Don’t jump into another relationship until you’re very sure the guy would make a great boyfriend!

I’m glad you bought something for yourself today!! It can pick up your mood away from the loser guy. Spend time with family and nice friends too. I wish you the very best of everything..

[mariahbalenciaga]

Thank you patricia. You’re a lovely person

[leidy1000]

Maria Im sorry to say this but you were his rebound. He didn’t break it off because of argument he did because hes still inlove with his ex. Right now he is not emotionally stable for another relationship. My advice is to let it go because it wasn’t yours in the first place. In the future do not date guys who just broke up and are heartbroken. Even if they tell you they are ok. They are truly not ok. I wish you good luck in your life. You sound so young with a future ahead. Hugs!

[mariahbalenciaga]

we didn’t set out to be together. Him and his ex don’t get on. We were orginally sleeping together then it progressed

[mariahbalenciaga]

I feel so down today. Idk why.
I do miss how things were.

I go from wanting him back to hating him and wanting to tell him how I feel.

I hope NC works. My heads so messed up rn.

[Jburg32]

I think the best thing for you to do is to try and put another message up removing the emotions, we have all been there and it hurts. Its just hard for us to reply properly with loads of small messages, how old are you guys and he is not being really fair to you.b would focus on you for a bit and go full NC with him.

he just needs to miss you and see you will not hound him and annoy him.

J

[mariahbalenciaga]

I do like the NC method because it’s win/win

[patricia12]

@mariahbalenciaga – You’re thoughts and moods will waiver back and forth for awhile so that’s why no contact is a good idea to get him out of your system, but that usually takes longer than 30 days. Stay strong and use your logic to understand and know that he wasn’t good to you or for you! Besides wanting money, there were other things he did and said to make you miserable. He was NOT a good boyfriend and you know it! I understand you wanting to tell him how you feel, but sending another message won’t do any good and he won’t care. You were good to him and he didn’t reciprocate. Don’t be swayed by the good times, think of the overall effect he had on you.

Please believe me that no contact will help you to get past the sadness and mixed emotions. You will get clarity in that you will come to understand what sort of guy you deserve to be with. You won’t accept bad treatment in the future and you will be happy to find a guy that treats you with love and respect.

[leidy1000]

Yes Maria it will take longer than 30 days to get him out of your system. Im sure that Patricia is right because all she tell you I went through it in these 5 months. Your ex is going to do anything to sabotage the moving on. I been through alot of sabotages from my ex and whenever he came back was to reject me in anyway. Its true about the ego boost. They come back for it. My ex is again trying to bring me down but I had him blocked. Now hes sending his friends to call me and one even texted his number with his name to me. I was 8 years with him and he does the same to me as any new boyfriend. So the same can come to you. They turn manipulating into getting what they want from you.

No contact has been helping me so much. After i finish one no contact I get in contact and go straight to another one. You see the new them after you finish no contact and the new them suck. Im so happy by myself. Im transfering college. I feel like Im at a best place than when I was with him. I hooe you keep up your happiness without your ex. I wish you the best. Keep us posted.

[mariahbalenciaga]

I’m just so torn. I dunno what I want. I’m sad I miss him but I’m angry at him. I keep thinking of how things were.

Is there any hope through NC we could ever be happy together?

[leidy1000]

Its normal. This is like a roller coaster of emotions. You will want him so bad. Somedays you will be ok. Actually you will realize its broken enough. You can’t be happy together just yet. You need to find true happiness with yourself. Maybe just maybe everything fixes and he makes it up to you, but chances are very slim.

[mariahbalenciaga]

Well he’s gave me hope so I guess I have to hold On to it to some extent

[leidy1000]

Yes you can hope to get back with him. I dont think hoping its bad. I went through that phase but later on all my hope was gone with all his rejections.

Are you doing something to keep busy?

[mariahbalenciaga]

I’m working a lot. But he’s on my mind and I can’t get him out of it. I just want him to want me. So I suppose NC is the only way we could even try. One day.

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