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Not helping him is so hard, I’m a gentle caring person by nature and naturally I do want to help. But I know he takes advantage. I want to move on and start dating again and I know I need this for personal growth. Just having him almost beg me is so so hard. Idk. Just venting.
Wow not helping is my especialty. I hate doing favors and all of that. I think you should stay put and not help. Sometimes people need to get a no gor an answer. Stop enabling him to have this sort of behaviors. He needs to seek for help from another person.
You’re sooo much stronger than I am! Do you think maybe he’s using this as an excuse to talk to me
Yes I believe that’s what hes doing. He’s lying to see if you reply. Don’t answer him because I don’t think he wants to be back with you for now. He wants to know if you are still willing to hang around. If he wants to be back Im sure he will specifically say the magic words.
I suggested my friend not to reply to her ex and in one text he did say he was willing to change for her and that hes sorry. Of course my friend decided to be in another relationship instead but her ex said those things without hearing from her.
My ex hasn’t text me also lol. If you are broken up it’s normal that he disappears for a while, or forever. You should stop wondering and keep going. If he comes back good for him, if he doesn’t well life moves on.
Spoke to soon. He said please can he use it, it won’t cost me anything he just has nothing
Then your ex is very immature and needy. He is begging too much. You can’t ignore him for so long. Idk what to do in your situation. Maybe Patricia has the answer for that one.
I’m trying to think that he took my money without asking. He could ask someone else to help him.
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