IS IT OVER?

[divjun]

For how long have you done nc?

What i am going to tell you are just my thoughts.
According to me if someone breaks up and it is not mutual then i dont see a single point of being friendly towards eachother. because when someone breaks up like this, he/she doesnt like the person or there are so many fights and grudges then why would someone like to be friendly with a person they most likely hate being with?

As you left her so many times alone and she always accepted you back but not this time. There is a reason she wasn’t accepting you. Why would she like to be friendly?
Its obvious she still has feelings for you and cares for you. She still wants to be part of your life. All these feelings are temporarily overshadowed by the hurt and anger. She is with her rebound and soon she will realise what she truely wants.
You both were together for 4 years and even a heartless person will miss something or someone which was there with him for that long and which was so close.
If you have done nc then its a great opportunity to show off your changes. Its clear she wants to be in your life and obviously she wants your little attention.
Don’t give her so much attention and treat her like your rest of the friends. No special treatment. Let her miss the thing you did together. She wont say anything to you but being a girl i can tell that will hit her hard!
Dont ask her things related to her love life.
Dont ignore her as well but be strong and confident. Dress smartly and look your best. Wear a different deo/perfume.
All the best:)

[JJ93]

@divjun you really reignited my confidence. Tysm 🙂

[JJ93]

@eddygod thanks man. My girl started messaging after a long time. According to me you should be patient and transform yourself in to a attractive person just like you told me. All the best bro 🙂

[divjun]

I know how it feels and we cant think straight when we are carrying so much hurt in our hearts.
I am here if you ever need someone to talk and share:)

[JJ93]

@divjun yup you are right! Same here! You can talk share with me anytime 🙂

[JJ93]

Hey @divjun I am feeling very low today. Feeling very very lonely. Missing her badly.

[divjun]

Its normal to feel that way. But you gotta understand it will only make you weaker. You are strong!! Give it some time and everything will be alright. Take your mind off her. Watch a movie or go out with friends!!

[JJ93]

@divjun I fear every day they get more and more close and I just cant do anything. But my hope and faith are alive.

I don’t want her to be carried away by him. She looks very happy with him.

[divjun]

This is the start of their relation and even a worst match will be happy in this stage.
Wait for sometime. When reality will hit her, she will regret her steps. You just focus on yourself.

[JJ93]

Thank you girl @divjun . Yeah just like you mentioned, I was shocked she selected him! He may be a good person but they don’t suit.

The thing is college is almost done and I am very lonely. That affects.

[divjun]

You must be having some close friends?
Go out and have fun:)

[JJ93]

Hey @divjun today we had another conversation. It was about the results of exams. It was just an academic conversation. I helped with some good ideas.

After that academic conversation she herself started talking about the past. Talked about my mistakes. She said how come again you started caring for me?

I just said my mind was unstable. Then she asked ‘ I am still same to you? ‘

I said yes.

She asked. ‘ even after knowing I am with another guy?’

I said that doesn’t matter to me. 3 years isn’t a joke.

So she said ‘ I know you very well. No guy will like a girl being with another guy ‘

So I said ‘ whatever I say, you don’t believe me. So I’ll stop proving myself ‘

Then she said she gave me 3 chances and I broke her trust. So she can never come back to me.

Then we wished each other success and ended the convo.

Wat u say girl?

[JJ93]

@samuel @edygodd @rustyred @aman16690 please have a look and help me…

[divjun]

May be she wants you to ask her to get back together. You are still on her mind. You did well but i think you shouldn’t have said that she is still same to you. Anyway do nc and dont talk to her. She will be around though.
And hey, m updating something. Please check that

[JJ93]

@divjun I’ll check that.
But she clearly said she will not come to me again. Still?

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