Boards Reconciliation IS IT OVER?

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  • #32897
    divjun
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    I would be here only:)

    #32916
    JJ93
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    @divjun Dont mind me asking this. They both are seen together in college. Chat whole day with each other and are very happy together. She has met his family too.

    Do you still think there is a chance for me? Is it greener grass on other side for her?
    She always compares me with him and insults :/

    #32933
    samuel
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    1. Its not over
    2. She is being competitive rubing everything in your fave trying to make you jealous
    3. Start NC for 2 months
    4. Dont answer her
    5. Work on yourself (new clothes, haircut, perfume, go to the gym)
    6. Go on dates bring that confidence up!
    7. Are you sure she will be better with you? Cuz this guy will treat her good and you seem to not be serious i mean you keep on dumping her… like bro if you love her youd never do it you may be in love with the relationship more then with her

    #32998
    JJ93
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    @samuel
    I don’t think she is making me jealous. They look really happy and are moving very fast.

    And yes I am very sure that I wont repeat my mistakes again because I now realised what the actual problem was.

    What do I do if they are serious? Do you think its rebound?

    #33031
    JJ93
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    @divjun please reply

    #33043
    divjun
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    I somewhere agree with samuel
    But if she was really in love with you, she will revisit you for sure.
    He might be her rebound or something like that and thats the reason why they are moving that fast. Dont worry about it just be cool and calm.

    #33044
    samuel
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    Well this is obviously a rebound and i say go and read everything in “understanding my ex”

    #33060
    JJ93
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    @samuel and @divjun today is my 4th day of NC. We were face to face in college today and she turned away. Even I didn’t speak.

    But in the evening she messaged me asking why no messages? Some days ago you wanted me badly, now your fever is down?

    So I told her I just don’t want to disturb her because she told me she is happy.

    So she said she’ll ask the same question after some days. I said okay.

    Wat is this now?

    #33199
    JJ93
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    @divjun and @samuel please reply

    #33204
    divjun
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    She is still interested in your life.
    You shouldn’t have replied to her.
    Do strict NC it will help a lot:)

    Can you check my updates? I am feeling very low and alone at this moment:/

    feeling hopeless and confused

    #33205
    Mj
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    @divjun how should i deal with my ex being in rebound?

    #33210
    divjun
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    You shouldn’t do anything and let the time pass. Dont see what she is upto. Heal yourself and be the confident guy again.

    #33213
    Mj
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    The thing is that I’m meeting her and our mutual friends tomorrow. Thought it would be a good time to show her the changes I’ve made.

    #33215
    JJ93
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    @divjun she was texting almost like she is close to me. But I decided to stop the conversation. Is she just being friendly or?

    #33217
    edygodd
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    Well,imo she still thinks about you if she texts you.
    I am in same situation like you,she got with other one in her class. but i’m not in sane school.
    Just do NC 1-2months (atleast for you ,she text you,but mine just ignores me and shes moving really fast,trying to piss me off).
    Try to hit the gym,new haircut,and socialize more with people.let her think you just got over it ,this will make her reallize and miss you(atleast i think she already miss you),and after the NC when you are a new start,try to message her ,date ,take all cool ,and i think you will be back with her.

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