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Hey Samuel, its a very tricky situation for you. I can’t believe you have made it 5 months without her, congratulations !!! In regards to your last post about the pj’s I’m not too sure about that one, given you have been broken up for quite a while it may just obviously come across as a ploy to get to her but I can’t be too sure, thats just my opinion lol.
Also KD1988 I am in a very similar situation to you in regards to my boyfriend, my whole life was in shambles but he was the only good thing about it yet the rest of the shit affected our relationship to where he also said he doesn’t love me anymore. It really hurts hey. However for me this is the second time its happened with us :(. At least you guys are still in contact though :).
Would love you guys opinion on my latest post “social media” don’t really know what to do with myself.
@nattycatty1 do you think i dont have a chance anymore? And i dont want to keep her things and dont want to throw em out cuz their not mine! And i feel like it could give me a shot at seeing her again!
I could wait until this summer or something, wait t’ill her prom is passed and then give it to her or maybe even wait for her to be single again
I don’t think a relationship is every really over, you will always have a deep connection with that person, and maybe reconnect in years because you have never been able to find that connection again. I know thats probably daunting lol like years away you may reconnect but you don’t want to bank on that it just depends on how the future pans out.
You could maybe think of a cute way to send her the shorts. I don’t know how your relationship/friendship is currently but you could put the pj’s on and send her a snap as a bit of a joke or something lol. I’m not too sure if that would be inappropriate given your situation but I personally would find that funny lol.
Ya i took her off snap since i dont enjoy seeing her wrapped up in that guys arms..
Hmmm ok, lol sorry bad idea. I’m coming up with blanks right now cause my brain is so stressed and upset given my recent breakup i’m having trouble doing anything lol. But i think if you perhaps come up with a cute way to let her know you have them. That way it is up to her if she wants to see you and get them. Sending them in the mail will give the wrong impression but organising a meet up may come across as pushy.
Were they her favourite pair of pj’s or something. You just gotta think outisde the box for something different you can do that will make her wonder about you.
Im thinking of becoming jacked as fuck and then taking a pick with them on me and asking if its hers or another girls i had over 😉
Hmmm I wouldn’t recommend that. Whilst jealousy can work i think it could have a negative effect, even moreso than where you guys are now. I know how it feels to be scared about getting your ex back, but don’t get so drunk you’ll do something you regret. In a way I hope my ex doesn’t do the same. He is one to drink when he gets depressed and I’m worried for his well being but I also don’t want him to go and jump into bed with someone because thats not who he is. But there’s a reason men are douches right 😛 I just hope I’m wrong though
Your not in the wrong, but i have a new plan I’ll wait t’ill im in shape and send her a text saying i found something of hers and i’ll be passing by her house to drop it off i’ll go for a run shirtless and give it to her 😉
Lol or just wear a tight singlet/tank top to show off your muscles but also so you don’t look like a massive show off haha
It could work you just have to be a little subtle and not make it all about you and showing off and stuff.
No no just a quick hello give her the shorts catch up a little like 5 min talk and then run off haha
Lol ok sounds good. Just make sure you don’t do it all creepy and stalker like otherwise that could drive her away. At least let her kind of expect seeing you at some point. Otherwise the neediness and clinginess will come across. Not that I am saying you are but our exes think we’re lost without them (which in a way we are) but they will look at a lot of little things we do and just think their so desperate of us when they’re not always
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