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So I haven’t talked to my ex for the past two days because of the no contact rule but also because I don’t want to annoy him and push him away even further. But this morning I noticed he’s recently unfriended me on Facebook. &I have the urge to text him and ask him why? I haven’t pressed send yet but yea.
Don’t respond to that. He’s probably waiting to hear a response. Don’t give him that. Just keep up the no contact rule.
yes, he is doing it to mess with your head and get you to talk. also, why do you want to ask him that question. anybody can answer it for you! you guys broke up and therefore there is no need to be “friends” on facebook. so that is the ultimate reason, if you keep it together now, you soon be back on there and in his arm again!!!
Okay, he also texted me a few days ago saying he can no longer be friends and he can no longer talk to me. So does this mean I should stop trying to get him back? Also my friend has been talking to him and he said to her I can’t handle her anymore, I still love her but I don’t think we can be together anymore and that he was more pissed and sad in the relationship then he was happy but that was only because I was a bitch but I had my reasons
And he said I know breaking up with her was a rash decision but I stand by my decision as much as it hurts the both of us. I feel like I should just give up but at the same time I still see the light
speaking of unfriend. My ex just unfriend me. Hah. *rolls eyes* it hurt but I am still not going to contact him.
Anyways
Right now your ex is full with negative emotions. So of course right now all he could think of is that the break up was a good idea. The first time my (ex) boyfriend and I broke up (this is our 2nd) he had told me face to face that we were done and that I should move on. he texted me before “don’t worry I know someone out there will treat you the way you should be treated.”. So when I applied NC for almost a month he called me back crying. Because I been ignoring his text. His text came from “how are you?” to “hey can we have dinner” to “please let me see you”. Then one day after work he called me, crying. he wanted us to meet. I was iffy about it but he kept insisting. My point is let NC do its wonders. even though I have experienced this before I’m also iffy about my situation still. Like I feel like “maybe we are done at this point now.” Since this is the second time we broke up. But just trying to get by and act tough and do NC. You can do it too. We are here for you.
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