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Dara, a.z., kevin , everyone,
my assumptions about my ex talking to another girl is right. Now I dont think they are dating, im just nervous that he thinks that shes better than me, I also feel as though if they did like each other he wouldve asked her out by now their friendship or whatever It is sense we broke up. I feel like everything I do on facebook, like taking pictures , adding guys etc etc is not doing anything in my favor. Im not freaking out, I feel okay. Now it has been 6 weeks, idk if right now hes just trying to fill the hole. My ex is kinda desperate not going to lie. I just want some advice agin.And I feel like im the only one thats hurting, I feel like hes happy and doesnt miss me.
Trust me, he’s miserable. My ex is THE most disciplined guy ever, he’s macho, closed mouth, unemotional… after our last break up his house was trashed, food rotting, he stopped working out and got a massive $1500 tattoo. THIS break up is my doing, I’m in No Contact, I’m sick, obsessed, devastated…and he has sent a couple texts. Everybody is miserable. So cheer up…your ex is miserable. lol.
love,
suckerSucker,
I seriously hope youre right, I just feel like he isn’t. Even with this girl. I just know he wouldve asked her out already and he hasnt. Im so miserable its ridiculous.Oh, my ex faked to the public like he had it all under control…I know he even dated, which I didn’t care about. Your guy might go out and it will just make you look ALL the better. Is she going to look him directly in the eye and totally connect with him? Be ladylike in public? And really…does she know what he really wants, really really wants when it comes down to “it”?
She will fail. You will win. You will only look better in comparison if you gave the relationship your best.
He hasn’t asked her out because he’s waiting for you…and he’s not feeling her that way. He’s not over you. Every time they are together, you are in the room. You know what I’m saying is true. Chin up, chest out…you got this.
Sucker
K.w,
Come on,do something to get your self confidence back.why makes you feel like he thinks that girl is better than you.he didn’t even ask her out.
I dated really hot guys,my ex is not really that good looking but i really prefer my ex over them.
Don’t worry about anything.stop obsessing over your ex and concentrate on yourself.i’m sorry but this really shows that you haven’t been following NC the way you should have.you have been kinda stalking him so how would you know if he is talking or not talking to someone.you are stopping yourself from being a happy confident person.
You can contact him and get him back only when you feel really happy in your life without him and you accept the fact that you MAY never get him back and be totally ok with it.work on yourself and best of luck
What a.z says is true. NC is about YOU with the added side effect of making someone miss you! It’s about you being happy and a better person, someone who could be better than what they were in the relationship before, or ok without it. Try your hardest to stop paying attention to social media for a while- I know it’s one of the hardest things for me to do right now but it’s for your own good. Seeing how “happy” he is is just going to drag you down and slow your healing process. I keep wanting to look at his Facebook profile but it does nothing but hurt me when I do. Take this time to become happy and confident! Make it so that there is a new and improved you when he next sees or hears from you!
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