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so she reached out to me a on Saturday saying:
‘Hey don’t Ignore me :(‘
‘You didn’t even reply to my other messages :'( :|’I read these messages on Sunday and she then said ‘:|’ and I read that message to which she then said ‘You’re just being hella rude now’
I couldn’t take that the she was still reaching out to me so I had to just tell her that I asked for space. I asked why she is still popping up to me despite her telling me that she was alright with the whole needing distance and she replied ‘well I didn’t know it was this long’ so I replied ‘hmm well it’ll take quite a bit of time’ and she replied ‘well I miss you’, I then said ‘Im just accepting the break up tbh’ and she said ‘Yh I know’ ‘But I still miss you’
She eventually told me how she is stressed because her boyfriend doesnt know about her insecurities and that she’s scared how he is going to react. She told me how it was different for me and her because I knew her insecurities before we got together whereas with this guy she said that ‘He seems good with stuff he’s seen like my scars he was perfectly okay but what if he cant handle the fact that I’m still doing it or that I still feel the same’. I told her that if he handles it well then he’s good whereas if he doesnt handle it well then he’s clearly not good in the long run.
I then just ended the conversation and told her good luck so that she would reply and would have the last say.
I have no idea what I have to do from now onwards because the only reason that I gave her that advice was because at one point I was constantly saying how I was just accepting the relationship and how its her problems. She told me she feels like she lost one of her ‘fucking best friends’ I said I cant do anything because she is now her and I am me, we are no longer together. To which she replied ‘you’re just being a prick’ so I felt all defensive and had to be nice so that she wouldn’t have a bad image of me. I wanted to keep a positive image in her mind regarding what she thinks of me, I want her to think positive of me as opposed to being a ‘prick’ in her eyes.
What do I even do to get the power back in my court from now. :/ I am still working on myself but regarding working towards reconciliation whats next.
If it’s so hard to ignore her delete her
You definately shouldn’t let her speak to you about her boyfriend…She called me a prick so I just didn’t want her to think negative about me and I tried saying how its basically not my role to be helping her out and she kept telling me how that’s rude that I’m not helping her and that if I needed help she would be there for me
It’s rude of her to tell you about her new relationship. I don’t know how she doesn’t understand how that would hurt you. If you asked for space she needs to understand that. It’s not your job to be there for her since she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. If it hurts you this much then not responding and blocking would make sense. She shouldn’t want to string you along while she is with someone else. It’s not fair to you and your emotions
I know its annoying that she told me but its not tempting to reply to her its annoying why she is still reaching out
She misses me :/ why is she telling me that :/
What if he accepts her and her insecurities and then there won’t be anything that will be negative about him by the sounds of it
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