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Your thinking too much and thats causing you depression. What you think won’t change the situation. It will only cause pain to you. Ignore everything and keep yourself busy. It will really help you alot.
I guess your right divjun its hard to stay strong at moments like this. I hate these feelings and I feel like I’ve lost him already. I wish I could get him back and this seems impossible. hes bringing my kids today and I feel like telling him to keep them for another but Idk what to do. hes calling me now probably because of my kids ugh. I hate this. lets see if he leaves me a voice mail. or I may call him back. I hate missing him. ugh
yup he called to fine out how to pick up my youngest. hmm I was thinking of going to that park infront of my youngest school to exercise in hopes of running into him lol but not sure if its a good idea or not. hmm ugh
Sorry I probably gave too much info out and it always sounds so negative, a lot more then it actually is.
I wouldn’t give him some space, just act normal and happy when ever you see him,talk to him.
I really would not recommend that if he wants space then give it to him, that last thing he might want is to bump into you. I know that sounds horrible but he needs space.
Go to the other park. Dont try to bump into him intentionally. Keep it cool and ignore everything. Do something which gives you happiness 🙂
thanks guys as much as I want to I wont. funny thing is I tried to call him back and he declined my call. I was gonna leave him a voice mail but didnt want to. funny thing is hes probably talking to unimportant people. maybe even females. ugh 🙁 @Nick you said it how it is and I appreciate that. I guess Im starting to accept that im not gonna be getting him back. :'( he can have all the space time and females he wants. I guess I really need to ignore him and diffidently kick him out of my equation for real. I guess I just need to move on. I dont want to accept it but most and this is so painful after so long. I feel like it meant nothing to him. 🙁 what do you guys think. I dont want to lose him but feel the way hes acting is horrible towards me. I may never get him back but I have to be a realist as well. 🙁
haha, I just left him a voice mail stating his name. I said his name and then said:I called you but it went to voicemail. then I explain what he needed to do and told him to call me if anything. how was this text? did I do good? I may even tell him to keep my kids tonight as well. 🙂 what do ya think?
ugh we were texting back and forward about if he got my youngest and he did. but nothing else. ugh I hate that I really miss him so much. 🙁
Voice message was good!
Good that when you where texting you never brought anything up.
Don’t you dare give up!
Are you currently on LC with him?
@Nick thanks you mean I didnt mention that he didnt pick up or anything like that? not giving up, i=I keep trying to have hope but it seems so difficult with this situation. 🙁
Yeah good that you just got to the point and didn’t bring any relationship stuff up.
I can see mine not working out at all but you have a solid foundation to recover from!
Limited contact 🙂
Honestly aamls, you shouldn’t give up at all. Once you have contact with them, tables can turn in 1 move. You just have to know how to trigger him so he gets attracted and starts to fall in love again, I’m telling you. He is still attracted to you, but he is probably a bit angry, so just show him the fun side of yourself!
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