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oh really? I never saw it this way because he would always call me babe before we broke up and I would always call him babe. funny thing is he knows its my phone hes calling so I find it odd. thanks 🙂
When I was on the natural instinct chase I always said her name.
He won’t call you babe if the relationship is a bit prickly at the moment. So calling you by your name is like the next best thing. That’s how I felt anyway.
oh wow thats good news if thats what it is. I wish so because it sounds like a good thing. you just made me feel excited and slightly hopeful again. thanks its just he would never ever use my name and hearing him say it is just weird. lol and I would take it as a bad sign, lol thanks @Nick
Its annoying not actually knowing what is going on in someone’s head.
I can imagine it being weird if he does not normally call you by your name. To him at the moment it will feel somewhat normal in a way I feel (A bit complicated that one)
yes thats so true if not we would all know how to act, lol. yeah after the break up was when he started doing so. its just so weird and different I guess. (whats complicated). ugh lol
Complicated in that, most people never text or call and say there name because the phone does all the work for you. But using someone name in a text like I said is more formal and direct to the person (personal).
He already knows who he is talking to so why put a name? Putting someone’s name can indicate that you are on his mind 🙂
I see thanks for clearing this up. he usually leaves my name in a voice mail when he calls. my name and then message. ugh. lol also what do you think of his other behaviors and such?
I don’t know if this has been said all ready but he might be having a mid life crisis. No idea how old you 2 are and I wont ask as its rude to ask that question I feel.
well he seems pretty normal just stressed as always about bills which is nothing new. he also mentioned to his mom and a while ago to me about him getting another job because of too many debts. all of this is still him and his mom said he looks normal “fine” to her. we are 29 and 28. im 7 months older then him. I’m also thinking that since he was always tied down since a young age and since he has a lot of confidence in himself now something he didnt have a while ago hes taking advantage now to enjoy him self. I dont fine this fair at all. of course every relationship has issues but he could have stood. over all marriage is for better or worse and even though he has a reason to leave for better or worse means in any case scenario. ugh why is he so stubborn? ugh thanks Nick for helping me through this. 🙂
Hate that word “fine” I use it a lot of the time and I know when I say it something is always up.
Well you can have a 30’s mid life crisis but I doubt its that. This might sound crazy but he might have done something he really regrets and feels really insecure from it. That might explain the stubbornness. hmmmm…. I assume he avoids eye contact? Also how does he stand, front on side wards, hands in pockets. Anything different?
It really isn’t fair, he should of told you exactly what the problem is or whatever is going on in his head.
No probs
Mostly all guys are stubborn lol. Dont worry take it slowly. I know its hard to accept it. It will get better and better with days. Give him some time. I am sure you both will end up together 🙂
yeah, (I honestly think his mom knows he wont get back with me and is saying give time to the time so she wont give me false hope, but im not sure. she trys to keep her opinion out of it and says he doesnt talk to her about his relationships, but who knows how true this is) I may be in that mid 30’s crisis as so many things are going wrong for me at one given time. him on the other hand just bills and this going on and he choose it, so yeah mid life crisis is not probably his case. if hes done some thing crazy I wouldnt know but hes always been stubburn and the day I was talking to him on the phone that I dropped of the letter he told me that he had already done stuff, I sad what you slept with someone he said no but he I guess kinda already done stuff. idk. this was like a month or so ago. when he stands he stands side ways most of the times and hands in his pockets and rearly facing me but yesterday when he decided to face me I think his hands were in his pocket. im gonna have to pay better attention to his positioning. what does all of this mean? is it bad or good? could you explain? I really wish he would speak his mind but hes the type of person who keeps everything bottle up inside and wont say anything I hate it. hes probably the worse case senerio of stubbornness. ugh what do you think?
thanks divjun I really hope so this is so hard. ugh 🙁 its so nice to have others to talk to and help give advise, I really dont know what would of been of me if it wasnt for this site. ugh 🙁 I hate depression. lol
Standing direct to someone is more personal and direct towards another person. Sideways is a lot less formal/personal. Sideways on is sometimes more comfortable when meeting new people.
Hands in pockets can be a lot of things, generally hands in pockets mean the person is feeling insecure. Hands out show a sense of I am in control and secure. But some people do just love putting their hands in there pockets.
Yeah I know a few people who are stubborn and its like, “look just listen to me”
I don’t suppose you know his personally type?
hmm interesting stuff here. what are the types of personality? hes always kept his feeling to himself how ever he told me once that im his weakness and I guess he had to push me away. now I guess his way of acting towards me is cold and that he doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. am I fooling myself here? Im finding myself losing hope. 🙁
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