@sdub – Nice to hear from you again after all this time:) You gave some very good advice for others who might read your post! Your ex was and seems like still is, a push / pull or passive / aggressive type person and I think you already know deep inside of yourself that it won’t work out in the long run. Don’t regret not bailing on the other girl because in the long run, because as you know, things with the ex go okay for a while and then she turns on you. Sooner or later she would have shunned you again. It sounds like you’re still trying to patch things up, but that’s just it, a patch isn’t permanent. I hope and pray you will find a nice normal girl who care about you and treat you with respect at all times. A girl you could fall in love with.. Keep dating others and I wish you all the best.