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Myself and my ex split up a couple of weeks ago. We had both been going through hard times and I I’m particular was just a nightmare to be around for a good month. We were together a year and very happy for the most part but he broke up with me saying that it was too much just now that I needed constant attention and reassurance and it wasn’t going to move forward with things being like this. During this conversation I accepted that he didn’t want to be together and he said he didn’t want us to not be in each other’s lives and he would like to keep spending time together . I mentioned at this point that what would happen if we kept spending time together etc and he said it was a possibility that we might end up back together but that at this point that was all ifs and buts. He noted that he was surprised how well I handled the breakup and he was glad I didn’t get overly emotional and that was a reason why he was so wanting to keep spending time together. He even asked if he could still attend an event as my plus one. I didn’t do no contact because it just wasn’t the right thing for our situation. We have been talking and are meeting up to ‘hang out’ this weekend. In our texts he goes back and forth one day he can be really interested and flirty and the next he hardly speaks but in general it has been easy to keep up contact without me really having to try.
I really want to get back together as we did have such a good relationship. I’ve spent two weeks going to the gym and really working hard in my self confidence and issues. I can’t tell if he is genuinely interested or just wants to keep me in his life as a friend?
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