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I simply sent her a message saying ‘i’ve been so stupid.’ I have done this as I know I will never get her back. It’s resignation..
Well, I understand you, I know how it is to lose someone you really love only because you were an asshole, basically my story, Im fighting myself to text my ex aswell.
You sent her weird text, she probably doesnt know what you meant or what to answer. It also shows you are still griefing.
Libertine,
You spent 29 days of NC…to send that text? THAT TEXT!? Where’s the letter? Where’s the bliss moments? The realization statements? The want of a “friendship” one day if she’s interested?
Come on…
Hey guys. I guess I lost hope. It was her decision to leave me and she was talking about our that guy before.
I have done some unforgiveable things and have basically been stalking her. I mean pretending to be a friend texting from my phone, saying I was in hospital and hopes she got what she wanted? 20 texts on some occasions, all crazy?
I sent long messages apologising before no contacT. I just feel it is hopeless. She will never speak to me again and is happy with her new guy. Her parents are also more important than me.
This situation should be about you, not her. If she loved you, but youve done horrible things (as we all did) you just need to be patient. Send her bliss reminder from time to time, remind her of good things, dont apologize all the time, it brings bad memories.
Im kinda angry at the moment, my ex doesnt even want to know whats going on in my life, its driving me crazy. Five years together and not even a “whats up”… Its sad.
Do another 30 days of NC. Don’t send anything. and work on not stalking her. You have to let her go. You have to let the past go. Forgive yourself and become happier.
If it was as bad as you say, 30 days may not be enough.. so go another 30 days.
And when you text her, don’t send a text that shows that you’re still pitiful. The next one should be happy and confident. Get relationship rewind if you haven’t.
Yo guys, thanks. So I received some advice from a certain someone yesterday and contacted her parents on Facebook, via a fake Facebook account (as they blocked me) and I stated that I was very sorry for the way I acted, but that I do love their daughter a lot.
So far,they haven’t read it. They may not bother and delete it.
I think the parents are the key to this. I think you may be right in saying another 30 days of no contact might work. I plan on sending her a letter.
I want to get across that life is good for me and that I really would like her in my life.
It is a battle against all the odds to even get a response from her. She may be happy with her new guy and just wants to move o. Although I am not sure how a relationship works, if it all down to the parents…
I have to be honest with myself. She probably wants me to leave her alone.
You just need to wait for their response, they will read it. Curiosity is strong. 😉
Dude you lied about being in hospital, sent her 20 texts in row and contacted her parents on Facebook (which is odd to me as itself) even if they already blocked you.
One month of NC wont fade away negative memories here, no way. You need more like two years of NC for this. I hope positive memories you two shared togeter was stronger than nevative ones you caused after breakup.
I know it seems unreal but you need not less than one year of absolute NC. More of NC the better. Forget your ex, work on yourself, make sure you will not do the same mistakes in your life again whatever will happen. You should find another relationship to make her feel you are really over her too.
Then you can send her really short letter, which shoudnt be encouraging for her to answer.
Good luck on your story bro
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