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    wumuone
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    He wanted me to prove my love after the breakup. I did my best but he always rejected me. After 3 weeks of pushing his self- esteem I got distanced and mind my own business. Then he texted me that he is upset and has problems with the family. He sounded like really upset.. I picked him up for a walk and didn’t go inside his apartment although he asked me for going in. I was like a good friend and didn’t talked about the relationship. (NOT EVEN ONE WORD) When I walked home he texted me thanks for coming I appreciated that. Thank you ver much good night. I just texted np good night 🙂 The next day he texted me out of the blue: I wished that we never had those useless arguments all the time……

    2 hours later I texted back: I wished too but that we can’t change what happened and we need to do the best out of it. We can learn and decide to it better if we are thinking about being back together or we need to say ok that’s it. I can’t forget what happened and I don’t want a relationship with this human. He just needs to talk to me honestly.

    He didn’t replied back!!!!! Next day I texted, that he just can’t open the relationship topic and to urge me to think about the relationship and then just ignore my messages, it’s not fair!

    He didn’t replied either. I don’t want to text him anymore.

    What do I need to do? I don’t want to hope for his commitment anymore. I only live once and this situation kinda make me feel frustrated. I want to be happy again and just go my own way… but I have a lot of stuff in his place… When is the best time to ask him for my stuff ? I mean I have a lot of shoes and bags in his place…. What shall I do ?

    #111392
    patricia12
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    Call him on the phone and leave a voice mail about getting your stuff back.

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    patricia12
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    PS: If he doesn’t answer the phone, leave a voice mail..

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