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March 27, 2015 at 9:19 am #38329
Well all I did was add a ex girlfriend on Facebook and I hungout and got drunk with my old friends that she thinks is trouble last night
March 27, 2015 at 2:57 pm #38443I doubt Ill get her back
March 27, 2015 at 5:26 pm #38465That’s how I’m feeling
March 27, 2015 at 5:50 pm #38469Guys honestly it’s not as hopeless as you sound but the ironic part is acting like its so hopeless is killing your chances. Girls NEVER like negative people you gotta put a big confident smile on your face and keep it there no matter how fake it is at first. Go out more, work out, pick up a hobby, whatever you need to do to get some confidence but damn you can’t sit there and feel bad about yourself. We have all been there it does so much more harm than good.
March 27, 2015 at 8:33 pm #38482Oh I know trust me I’m doing very well and I’m so much happier but whenever I think about her that’s when it hits me which only occurs at night and such. Other then that I’m always smiling posting so many happy pictures on my social medias and even going out a lot.
March 27, 2015 at 9:25 pm #38483It takes time man if you are doing all that then you will get there eventually, but good keep going out. Go on a few dates and while I hate to sound like I’m saying go move on don’t treat other girls or dates as just a means to get back with your ex, if they are nice enough girls you should give them as much a chance as they deserve. But overall that’s good that you feel better, a positive mind frame is key just keep looking forward. If you ever are feeling down come here and use the boards, that’s usually what I am prone to do if I’m having a rough day.
March 28, 2015 at 1:11 am #38491My ex called me and said this is the last time we talked…
March 28, 2015 at 1:11 am #38493its crazy how we literally have to see each other everyday and we live right infront of each other, there has to be some feelings for me there in her
March 28, 2015 at 2:43 am #38495Will you get your exes back? I dont know. But you have as much of a chance as the rest of us. But sitting around wondering about it, thinkin about why they do this and that wont do you any good.
This is the hardest task of all, but you need to get them out of your head. They are not you ex, they are just another person, and that is how you should treath them.
You have to move on so you can get back on track.March 28, 2015 at 6:43 pm #38622Has there been a case in which the dumpee moved on quick? I really want to move on but the feelings are just there and it’s hard to get them out.
March 29, 2015 at 1:28 am #38644Well. Dumpee is you. And yes, some dumpee are able to move on very fast.
Some dumpers are also able to move very fastMarch 29, 2015 at 3:39 am #38647Why do I feel like this is so hard? This sucks! I feel as if I’ll never get her back and she really moved on… I love her so much but I feel as if she doesn’t love me anymore..
March 29, 2015 at 3:51 am #38650She doesn’t love you. Not the way you want her to.
But she did when you were together. And she can get the feelings back! You just need to get out of her life for a while, in order to get them back. And spend the time away from her wisely.And try to understand that at this very moment she is NOT in love with you. In fact she might not even give you any thoughts what so ever.
That is also the reason why the stage you are in right now is the hardest of all.
March 29, 2015 at 3:54 am #38651This picture actually explains it very well. You just need to:
Change the word “Men” to Dumper (you ex)
Change the word “Woman” to dumpee (you)
Forget about the timelineMarch 29, 2015 at 1:11 pm #38742Can’t it be the other way around tho in that picture? What if she was crying while we broke up and she followed the “women” part of stage?
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