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So a few days ago my ex texted me “Hey I’m going to be late to the meeting, just left court” ..I posted a thread about it bc I didn’t know if it was an intentional wrong message to get a reaction from me or was a like really improbable mistake…he’s a social worker (was at court for work) and that text clearly should be sent to someone from work..not me…esp bc this *mistake* never happened ever before. So. I ignored that, kept NC. That was day 14.
Today was day 18. This morn he liked TWO of my instagram photos! Keep in mind he doesn’t follow me..he has me blocked so I can’t see his but he can see and like mine (it’s public) so not only did he like them he also intentionally looked me up!
He hasn’t even contacted me directly though and it’s a bit irritating… advice/thoughts?
fyi we had a big fight right after the break up it was all immature so maybe that’s why? but idk…Thanks @otherone
Yeah, I had become the person always apologizing and trying to fix things! He broke up w me and then in our argument bc I was blowing up his phone he threatened with going to the police saying I was stalking him! He needs to apologize. smh.
He used to do this during fights too..his way of showing me he was still there…then he would text me saying “break at 11” or whatever time and would want me to come see him during that break. I hope he doesn’t do that this time. This can’t be swept under the rug..also if he texts me that I’m gonna be on vacation anyway haha! I’ll be gone for his bday…half intentional..I just don’t know why he’s trying to get my attention as opposed to just apologizing or being upfront -_____-Ugh. So confused. He did or said nothing else after that yesterday and has done nothing today. Why isn’t he just contacting me directly but instead is trying to get my attention -_- I’m not reaching out first right now…he was the one who ended it >.< Why like my IG photos if you’re not gonna talk to me? Why send me an “accidental” text message? grrr confused.
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