Got Blocked quickly, any hope to get her back

[Wonderful]

Hello,

We have known each others for 5 months, we loved each others so much (maybe she didn’t?), the main method of contact was texting through whatsapp, also phone talking like once/week.

Last month, she was in middle of final exams, and we could not talk that much, even when we texted each others, it was about her exams and how she did.

suddenly last week when i asked her for a phone talk, she said in texting:
I had confused feelings for you, during my exams I now know how I really feel about you, and I rushed into a relationship with you, I need to focus on myself and my future.

I texted her back if i can phone talk, she refused and said in text:
please understand, i’m not ready for a relationship and don’t wait for me, we need to break up.

I asked her if it’s about someone else, and if i should wait for her to finish college next year..
She said:
It’s not about someone else, its about how I feel for you, and don’t wait for me, i don’t see myself in this relationship, i was following my mind not my heart. Take care and have a good life.

Then, she blocked all the methods to reach her [Whatsapp, and phone number].
I don’t know what to do, or if i should contact her through a random phone and follow some steps.

For both of us it was the 1st relationship in our lives.
currently i’m following the NC Rule, but i’m afraid that after 3 weeks i would be still blocked.

Thank you,

[patricia12]

Wow, she sounds like she’s made up her mind about not wanting a relationship with you and there’s nothing you can do to force her to change it. Continue following the no contact rule and in a month or two, reach out and ask how she’s doing. Then take it from there, but if she’s still adamant about no relationship, you’ll have to accept it and move on..

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