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    DK101
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    I think thats why you need to take this time to fix yourself. Time changes everything, she might think she wants to move on now but could change her mind later.

    I know that her getting another guy is very scary and pretty much nails the coffin shut, but we cant live in fear of that.

    You are doing great with your progress. When you begin to feel better again, your whole life will change.

    You may have also acted needy after the breakup cause you were afraid of being lonely. I know I did.

    Keep up the good work and good luck with your therapy session. Let us know how it goes 🙂

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    BobbyL216
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    Hey guys. I haven’t been to therapy yet, that’s tonight. But last night, I messaged Haley on Instagram and told her the truth.
    I told her I’ve always been depressed, I was hurting myself 2 weeks before we met, I started up again after the breakup, and nearly killed myself.
    It will only hurt my cause with her, but I have to blow this thing up. I can’t survive chasing her again and failing. I’m putting myself first, knowingly, for the first time ever. I need help, it’s why I’m seeing a therapist.
    There’s a lot of history to the message I sent. I used to tell her I feel like her crazy ex, and she would tell me “you’re nothing like him”. I explained to her what it all means by telling her the truth. It might hurt her a lot, and make her find me even more repulsive. But she deserves to know the truth about me.
    This is gonna connect a lot of dots in her head. I had to do this, for me. It’s over, dudes. I wish it wasn’t.

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