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I completed my no contact and she hadn’t contacted me at all during that time. I started to believe she was never coming back. I had the lowest of low feelings after the breakup. I picked myself up lost some weight, hung out with friends. Mind you I work with her and for almost 5 weeks wouldn’t look at me. All of a sudden she text me out of the blue. I just acted like a friend was positive, fun, a and never brought up the relationship. I let her go after me and boom I got her back. It was horrible going through no contact. Im writing this because I had no hope this worked cause I saw no proof it did. Hope this helps those struggling
Good to hear that! Congratz! May I ask how you guys ended up together again? And did it take a long time? Cause I just finished my NC and I texted her yesterday evening. I used the “this reminded me of you”-text, which she replied this morning with a very short and casual answer (smiley included)
Basically the same process as you are at. I waited for NC to end and then I sent a short letter as suggested just basically letting her know I accepted the breakup, I was sorry for how I acted after the breakup, and that I would like to have a talk for closure as we had not had a talk at all. She basically had a breakdown and needed to work on things in her life. She said she was not ready to talk and I said okay well let me know when you’re ready and I was polite and told her to take care of herself. A few days later as I was passing out my text started going off. We ended up talking for an hour on text. I only kept it friendly and made sure never to mention the breakup or relationship. Short and sweet. From there it continued to progress. I let her chase me. I didn’t initiate contact and let her do all work. I wanted to make her wonder what I was doing, why I was not contacting her, why I was not pursuing her. Shes gotta miss you and start thinking she could lose you forever.
I sent a short email instead of an actual letter. I said I am totally ok with the breakup and sorry how I acted afterwords. The first couple days I blew her up on text and was getting very little in replies. She replied and it wasnt a great reply. A week later out of the blue she text me late at night. Wanted to share some good news she got or so she said. I replied and we had a friendly chat.I just kept it friendly. Left her hanging at the end and went to sleep. The next couple weeks I just left her alone and replied when she contacted me. Always friendly but nothing about us. It became more frequent and I let her wonder what was going on and let her chase me. We broke up for close to two months. But its not that long if you want them back forever. You already made it a month!
Thanks for sharing! It’s always good to know the final result (specially when it in fact worked!).
Good luck with your relationship 🙂
Congrats!!! It’s the law of attraction. Glad everything worked out and that you did things to help yourself. Keep it up.
Good luck with your relationship! Your post actually might me happy :-)!
About my situation, there’s hasn’t been much progress sever since I send the message… Here’s the link to my tread, hope you have the time to take a look 🙂
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