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December 12, 2014 at 9:26 am #18738
We’re finally back together again! π I am so happy! He said he was going through the same emotional stuff I was going through when we weren’t talking. We met up at his training camp and we talked about our issues and we ended up together again. π For those who inspired and motivated me to keep on going, thank you so much! And for those who’s still struggling, hang in there. I know it’s tough but everything’s going to be worth it in the end. The key is to never lose hope. Godbless you all!
December 12, 2014 at 9:30 am #18739December 12, 2014 at 10:52 am #18748@beatrice: CONGRATULATIONS !!!! I am happy for you, thats lovely to hear !! Good luck to you two and stay in loooooooove :))))))))
December 12, 2014 at 11:04 am #18751tell me about how long u were appart, how u started after the NC and things like that so i can take it into consideartion with my ex in some time PLEASE… I also am deciding if i should make my NC shorter… like next weekend or after the weekend to contact him if he doesnt do it first… idk but i feel if i wait too long he will just get used to being alone and end up realizing he is better off without me
December 12, 2014 at 2:52 pm #18772@beatrice That’s amazing news! Congrats to you! It’s so awesome to hear a success story and gives us hope. π
I’m sure a lot of us would love to hear your story like tami420 suggested.
December 12, 2014 at 5:09 pm #18780How did you do it? I’ve been working very hard trying to get my ex, and everyone is saying right now that I need to wait. I have a gut feeling that we will get back together sometime and yesterday I felt that something good is going to happen. Do you have any advice for me?
December 12, 2014 at 5:18 pm #18781Congrats!
December 12, 2014 at 5:19 pm #18782Pls post your story Beatrice.
December 13, 2014 at 12:47 pm #18868thank you guys! π i didn’t really follow the rules of NC. I broke it actually but it worked. my boyfriend broke up with me December 9, 2014. At one point, I begged him to stay. I tried calling him and texting him, no response. So I decided to do NC. I tried my best not to post photos or status about him, I only posted things that would make my boyfriend think that I’m happy on my own. And then one night, he messaged me on Facebook. I already knew he was drunk. He said he didn’t want me to call him anymore and he said he just wanted to forget everything about me and all that. I didn’t reply because I don’t really like talking to him when he’s drunk. the next day, he didn’t go online. I was starting to miss him, I wanted to talk to him so badly. So I broke my NC. I texted him that night, but it looked like he was already asleep. So I went to bed and then the next day he texted and messaged me on Facebook. We talked about seeing each other and talking things through for the last time and we both agreed. We talked about the things we needed to talk about, there weren’t any shouting or arguing. It was just a normal talk. And then he said he couldn’t eat and he couldn’t focus on anything when we were apart and he said that even though he wanted to be mad at me, he just couldn’t. And we decided to get back together. π So apparently, the NC worked even if it was just for 3 days. I’m glad I did it and everything’s back to normal between us. π
December 13, 2014 at 12:59 pm #18872How long have you two been together in total?
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