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Yes thats why the didnt work out for us then ! Its seems like she has matured alot now, and since she telling me that she want to feel special, enjoy the evening after kids are sleeping with a movie and have a boyfriend that want the same !
So I getting this feeling from her, that she want what i gave her when we was togheter !Yes, she did want to get married, but continue party life !
I dont think she was matured enough back then to see what i gave her and how good it was !Yes i think that now is the right time for us, and hopfully she are thinking the same.
Its been a Long time spart, and i need to see that she has change.Yes i Will try to have that conversation with her and hope for the best !
I am Just afraid of what the answere Will be, mabye i never getting her back, but thats a risk i must take !@sadman29 Yes, it sounds like she misses what you had together and she might be willing to try again.
Ask if she will think about the possibility of reconciliation. She might not be ready to give you an immediate answer, so don’t be upset if she says she will think about it..
Yes thats what i am thinking to, and i really hope that she mabye want to try again, mabye not right away !
For i think that we need to get to know each other again, and take it really slow, for i know that our daugther want us back togheter !Yes, i Will try to talk with her tomorrow or later this week and Just hope that she can be honest no matter what, so i know what i can do !
Its helps alot to talk with you and that you see what i see,
@sadman29 Yes, taking it slow seems like a good idea:)
Good luck!
Thank you !
I really hope that i get her back, and that she miss me and what we had togheter!
And mabye then i can look back and everything has been Worth waiting for !
So i think i Will try to have the conversation with her tomorrow after my job intervju!
I try think over and over again in my head how i shall do it, so it dont seems like i mean right now or that im desperate !
I dont know if i can meet her, but mabye over the Phone? Just so i know if there are any hope, or if she Just give me wrong signals.Sometimes i try to Just Write goodnight,sleep tight to her, but i dont get Any answeres,Even if she has seen the message.
I dont know how i shall take this ! I did have the talk with her today and all she Said was, i haven tought about that and everything is a mess around me and i have to set myself first now ! That was her response when i ask if she would think about to try us again !
So now im Even more nervous and im smaking, beacuse this means so Much to me and yeah, i dont know what to do now !
Now i cant do anything, just keep waiting i guess!@sadman29 It’s good you asked her to think about trying again. Now she knows you want to try to reunite as a family. Try to calm down and give her more time to think about it for a while.
Hopefully she isn’t continuing with the party life and is more invested in caring for the children.
What job interview? Are you looking for another job?
Don’t give up hope yet.. Good luck:)
Yes she knows that now, that i want my family back togheter and want her back.
But shall i not contact her ?
Do i let her be ?
What is the right thing to do now ?I also ask if i was a person she want to spend family life with, and she just Said, i havel thought about it.
Yes i do look for a new job and it seems like i get this Job and i told that to my ex and she was happy for me !
Its just so hard not to give up, and not just let everything out,and tell her what she means to me !
For i mean, if she did want to think about it, then why dont she say it ?
@sadman29 Don’t contact her for a while. Don’t send goodnight texts etc.. That will give her time to think. She didn’t say it, but I’m sure she wants to think about it for a while. If she doesn’t mention getting back together by the next time you see her, tell her what she means to you and whatever is on your mind or in your heart.
Do you know if she’s still into the party life??
Glad you told her about the job interview..
Okey, the next time mabye Will be next monday, so you think that i should not contact her in a few weeks then ? Give her space to mabye miss me ?
Okey, after a few weeks i Will tell her what she means to me and what i feel in my heart.mabye thats enough to her get to see what i can give her.
Yes i had to tell her about that, but that was in a text, so i did get a heart also,
@sadman29 Glad she’s done with the party life. Don’t contact her until next Monday and then tell her what’s in your heart.
Yes i think thats good to ! And thqts she finally want to have a adult life
Okey,thek i Will not contact her until next monday, its going to be hard for me and i know that she is going to contact me somehow,phone or snapchat, and she is going to notice that i am quiet.
But then i have good time to think about i shall say to her, beacuse i have alot of things i can say so she know what she means to me, and its over a year since she last heard something like that.
@sadman29 If she contacts you by text, phone, or Snap Chat, before you see her in person, don’t ignore her because that would be rude at this point. Just respond appropriately..
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