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March 18, 2015 at 2:39 am #36905
@gingerone
It sounds to me like she still needs a bit of time. I would imagine she’s saying that because she still had feelings for you. I would leave it a week nc and try again
March 18, 2015 at 4:20 am #36908She’s willing to meet to finalise the bills etc but not for coffee. I’m not sure what to think, I’m hoping she doesn’t want to meet because she still has feelings. I made it out as two friends having a catch up. Not sure what to think now. I’m going to give her my letter when we meet up. Then continue no contact for a while see how that goes. I was sure she would want to meet up. She’s the one that insisted we stay friends and if she txt/ring I shouldn’t ignore her. What do u guys think?
March 18, 2015 at 4:22 am #36910You could meet to finalise bills, respect the fact that she doesn’t want it to be a social meeting. You could give her your letter at the end of the meeting, but if you do that then you must leave her to it. She may read it and need a few days to process what you have said, so you must stick to NC in this time and not bombard her with messages or anything (which I know you can do)
March 18, 2015 at 5:44 am #36924@kd1988. I think the best thing now is meet up finalise bills etc give her my letter and continue with no contact for at least another month. I hope it’s all raw for her and not that she hates me. I hope the letter works in some way. I’ve got to contine to improve myself for my sake and know one else’s. How are u today?
March 18, 2015 at 5:53 am #36926@gingerone I completely agree with you mate. It definitely doesn’t sound like she hates you. Keep the meeting of the bills civil and short. Give your letter, then like you say go back to NC. Focus on YOU, you are important in all this too 🙂 Don’t lose focus on that.
I’m not too bad thank you!
March 18, 2015 at 6:27 am #3692715 days divjun! I am just affraid cause last time I know he was really down I didn’t take that chance (valentines day) and now I could be his savior lol. Last time I texted a few days later and was with him a week later after v day and he was colder than before. So idk… last time I regretted nnot contacting him on or before v day. I don’t want to regret again
March 18, 2015 at 11:20 am #36954How’s everyone?
I’ve decided that after next week I’ll break NC. I’ll meet up with my ex and give her a letter, tell her how I feel.
And we’ll see how it goes!
If she doesn’t want to get back, I’ll give up on trying to get her back. I wouldn’t waste anymore time on her and rather just work on friendship.
What do you guys think?
March 18, 2015 at 11:29 am #36955@MJ I think that’s a good idea my friend. At least you can say you have tried! And you never know. fingers crossed for you
March 18, 2015 at 11:39 am #36958Well today she did send me a snapchat in a long while haha.
Hope this last week of NC will do us, if the signs she have been showing are true, I might just have a chance.
March 18, 2015 at 11:40 am #36959March 18, 2015 at 11:45 am #36960do us good*
Yep yep be positive, the outcome will either be what we are now or back together.. can’t see it getting any worse hahaha
March 18, 2015 at 12:39 pm #36972Haha that’s a bonus!
I am sending my letter Friday. I am not sending it with expectation of anything. I need to send it for my own good!March 18, 2015 at 6:07 pm #37011So I don’t get this. He texted me Monday and was like “Phones work both ways…”. Then we talked a little on Tuesday and he said he would text me today because he had to go to work and he was going to go to bed right after work and he had to work early the next morning. Haven’t heard from him yet. I just want to text him and be like “Oh I thought you were going to text me”. Idk what I should do.
March 18, 2015 at 6:18 pm #37016I don’t understand when they say guys like the chase when he wants me to text him first and all of that.
March 19, 2015 at 2:58 am #37064sounds like he’s playing you ellie, if you text back he will know that you still have him on your mind
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