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February 22, 2015 at 6:53 am #32393
I really hope he’ll regret what he did to me. I tried each and every way possible to make it work. But just doesn’t see it. He is always pointing out my mistakes. He never regrets anything. He is ready to face all the consequences but wouldn’t accept his mistake EVER. I feel he doesnt even want me. He has never changed for anyone in his entire life.
February 22, 2015 at 7:08 am #32401I’m sure he will relaise sooner rather than latter. Stay strong I hope u get your wish
February 22, 2015 at 7:20 am #32404Hmm.thanks for being so positive about my situation:)
February 22, 2015 at 7:28 am #32405If he’s anything like me he will understand that he’s done wrong. I know every situation is different but I do hope things work out for u.
February 22, 2015 at 9:44 pm #32623Clearly he is confused and perhaps doesn’t know how to reconcile with you. he seems to be a little bit selfish and only thinks about his feelings so if you do the NC it should help him realize that he was being inconsiderate of you so give it time do the NC for 30 days and he should be trying to contact you after that and try responding and see what is on his mind, but if you’re stubborn you never know.
February 22, 2015 at 9:46 pm #32625* if he’s stubborn you never know.
February 22, 2015 at 9:52 pm #32627Hmm.. i know what you mean.. but the thing is he never sees his own mistakes and how he’s been treating me. The fact being i tried to tell him how i feel about this qhole situation and what he’s doing to me but he never pays any attention.
He wanted to be alone and didnt want to meet anyone so he left me alone. He would bring anytopic to fight and would only talk to him when he wanted. And when we were having arguments he would call me moody and selfish just because when i am hurt i go nc for 2-3 days!!!I dont k ow if this type of a person can regret something in life: /
February 22, 2015 at 9:56 pm #32628I tried to ask him what does he wants so many times but he is not telling e anything. Instead when we are in middle of an argument he would only say that he wants to be left alone.
And he wants to be single and have a simple life.
Clearly he is not happy with me. So when i leave him for a few days he would fight woth me for leaving him alone.
If i didnt leave him alone, i know he wouldn’t reply to my texts and would hurt me intentionally i guess.
He has changed alot.he was nothing like this.February 22, 2015 at 10:08 pm #32631Oops… we didnt meet last on 1 st july but on 1st january…
February 22, 2015 at 10:47 pm #32636Give it time. Just go NC for now. Work on yourself.
February 22, 2015 at 11:00 pm #32639Can you look at my post
February 23, 2015 at 9:24 am #32674I think that your ex is confused about his feelings, he still loves you but not sure if he wants you, you should go on nocontact period for at least one month and a half to show him that you’re not always available whenever he wants and never reply on his texts during this period
February 23, 2015 at 9:28 am #32676Thanks for your views. And i am doing the same thing but the difference being i am going NC till he starts valuing me again and respect my needs. I can know by the texts he leave me. He is still that unemotional and rude guy. So i am not even thinking of contacting him.
February 24, 2015 at 1:19 am #32804Got a text from him last night, that is on the end of day 6 of nc.
The text said “atleast tell me if you’re not gonna reply”
I didnt reply!!February 24, 2015 at 3:22 am #32821@divjun He is exactly like me. He is confused. He’ll realize it soon.
Unfortunately my Ex gf is with someone else now and I am hoping she’ll come back.
Just wait for him to realize. Dominating and egoistic people will be good from heart. They just fail to express their care and love.I dont him to be in the situation where I am standing now. He’ll realize soon. Follow strict NC. Good Luck.
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