Boards › Reconciliation › Extremely confused, and just wanting my relationship back
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December 3, 2014 at 10:20 am #17364
He seems to be trying to talk to me, which makes me feel good and the facts that he’s starting to miss me and still loves. I like that he actually wants to talk to me
December 3, 2014 at 4:54 pm #17396Do you guys thing he’ll eventually snap out of this?
December 3, 2014 at 7:58 pm #17416Only time will tell. Right now just let it be. I know is hard, but so far I think is going good, he keeps contacting you which is a lot more than some people get.
I have not heard from my ex from my ex 🙁December 3, 2014 at 8:07 pm #17417He keeps contacting me daily now
December 4, 2014 at 9:04 am #17473I think somewhere int he plan it says that you can tell them if you have to, just say ” I am taking sometime for myself right now” and don’t elaborate further. Read what Kevin says and go from there.
December 4, 2014 at 11:05 am #17490I’m going to sound stupid asking this, but which article is it from?
December 4, 2014 at 11:13 am #17494is the one on the very first page:
“Should I tell my ex that I am doing no contact?
Ideally no. You want them to wonder what happened to you and why you are not contacting them. You want to be on your ex’s mind as much as you can. And telling them you are not contacting for some time will defeat this purpose.However, if your ex is currently calling you everyday or texting you everyday, then yes you should let them know that you don’t want them to contact you for a short period of time. Don’t give them any specifics. Just tell them to not contact you until you decide to contact them. Let them know you need some space and time right now.”
December 4, 2014 at 11:29 am #17497That made me think of when he asked I wanted to talk to him, I told I’ve been busy with friends and other stuff, I think he is starting to wonder why I’m not talking to him some. Him doing that really makes me feel missed, which is part of I want to happen
December 4, 2014 at 6:05 pm #17540Sorry to double post, I’m just confused. But should I just stop talking for a few days and just take some more time for me? That’s really the only thing I know I should right now.
December 4, 2014 at 7:43 pm #17550Listen to your gut, what is it saying?
December 4, 2014 at 8:19 pm #17557To just give it some time, pray and focus on me. And that he’ll come back soon enough
December 4, 2014 at 9:49 pm #17562Then listen to it, it very rarely if ever our gut is wrong.
December 5, 2014 at 6:05 am #17602I guess I’m just getting anxious and wanting all my hard to really show now
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