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My sister said she wont mention me but she wants to respond. She doesnt want my ex thinking she hates her.
i think thats nice. if you do reconcile down the road, you don’t want her to think your family hates her.
Yeah. Well, the post where I said her new guy didnt want sex due to no sex drive or was indifferent about sex… I think thats why she’s hitting me up. She probably wants comfort and support and an ego boost.
Which is why I want to wait a long time. I dont want to be there because she feels like she needs me for that purpose but wants me because she realizes we were pretty fucking amazing together.
maybe she is on her way to realizing that!! i really am starting to believe in the law of attraction. my ex texted me for the first time since we broke up 3.5 months ago. this was the first time he initiated any type of conversation – before that he only responded to me. i think since I’ve been happier and more relaxed its really been helping!
Yeah. When she messaged my sister, I immediately thought of the law of attraction.
I need to work harder with it. Last couple of days have been rough. My sister kicked me out of her place because I had my cat… and now im using my cousins couch and still had to get rid of my cat. I’ve been kind of down.
Today though, I’m resetting my focus.
Did you respond to your ex?
🙂you’ll get it back. the whole process is good days and bad days! for whatever reason the last week i feel overall happier. can’t say what caused that.
i did respond to him. he reached out to discuss a tv show we both love. i thought about ignoring it but i don’t want him to think i don’t want to reconcile. our situations are different but differ in the fact that my ex isn’t in another relationship and also he hasn’t reached out once. i don’t think he’s using me as an emotional crutch because he never texted before. he always answered me when i texted him but i always had to initiate. we text back and forth for a couple hours over small talk, nothing about the relationship. do you think this was the right move on my part? why do you think now, after 3.5 months he finally reached out first?Cant say exactly why. If he keeps initiating contact, it’s a good sign. And I dont think it is a bad thing that youve kept in touch and kept a false friendship type interaction. You kept pressure off of him and that’s whar makes the difference imo
I agree. I won’t initiate any conversations but I’ll just be friendly and low pressure if he reaches out. I wonder if he will again…I was so shocked getting a text from him last night after him not initiating once in 3.5 months
Okay. Im pretty sure she is still in a relationship or she has started seeing her first rebound.
Her first rebound she said she had no fucking idea what that was all about. And I havent heard anything else about her relationship but the only time she visits a particular city, its usually because of another guy.
The last few days ive been super negative. I am trying really hard to work with the universe and stuff but Im reverting in a way. Also, I have decided in six months I will be moving back to the same city where she lives. Not for her but to complete my schooling. I wanted to go to denver but I have to be smart about the path I take.
@atea…you are so positive. Any words you can provide to well… comfort me. Lol sounds so needy.
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