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We haven’t met back up yet but she has done this a few times and I’m trying to understand why she might be doing this. She has texted me a couple times at night with a text saying something along the lines “hey how are you doing”? I would not see it at first and about 10 to 15 minutes later I see it and reply back and end the text also asking her how she is doing. After I send the text I get no answer back.
What would be the reason to her doing this? Is she wanting me to say a specific thing? Tonight she did that again but I didn’t notice it till it was late and I know she would be in bed at that time so I didn’t reply and plan to reply tomorrow afternoon. This seems weird and I don’t get it.
Forgot to mention the last time she did this. I waited about an half hour after my response and sent her a “im heading to bed. Hope we can talk again soon.” Almost immediately she texted me back with a goodnight text. Just seems odd and kind of annoying me.
Well she texted me back this morning basically saying that she thought I had something better in life to do than talk to her. I texted back saying that wasn’t true and it was an accident and I saw it real late. Her next texts she sounded insecure like she thought I hated her and changed my mind on wanting to talk to her. I told her I never hated her and want to talk but knew some more time was needed for healing and I didn’t want to pressure or rush her. She texted back saying she was tired of taking time. I told her I was going to be out of town this weekend but will be back on Sunday and asked if she wanted to get dinner and talk because it felt like we were drifting apart. She kind of agreed and said she will be back on Sunday too and will text me later. I sent one last text saying I was glad she wanted to talk and I want to talk about these insecurities she’s have and ended with saying I also hope she has a good day and talk to you on Sunday.
A little shocked up from this exchange but overall I felt like I said the right things and hope this talk goes good.
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