Ex has a new boyfriend after only 3 weeks

[steeld8]

Yeah a couple weeks ago i was okay but since last week when i found out she has a new boyfriend I’ve been so down

[a.z]

Its all normal and I’m so sorry about what you’re going through I know exactly how much it hurts its actually one of my biggest fears. Eventhough I don’t want him back, thinking of him with someone else mdrives me crazy but you know what? Right now, they are not with us so they have every right to date anyone they want. Just focus on yourself and don’t let her cause you any more pain. No human in the world’s worth it.

[steeld8]

You are definitely right. Its just hard

[a.z]

I know but nothing’s gonna stay like this forever. All we need is some time.

[steeld8]

True true

[steeld8]

Hey so I need some advice. It’s been over a month of no contact with my ex and I wanna try to text her soon. I looked at her Facebook and she is still with her boyfriend so idk how she will react if I text her. I still love her and wanna be with her. No contact has helped but I still think about her everyday. Idk if I’m ready to talk to her but I feel like if I don’t then she will just get closer to her new boyfriend which I want her to be happy and all but I really believe that I can make her happier. I wanna text her apologising for being a little crazy and tell her that I am better now and would like to have her in my life even if it is just as a friend but understand if she doesn’t want to. I guess I’m just scared about how she will respond or if it’s the right time to talk to her
Thanks for any advice

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