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Well yeah, I kind of expected her not to and she didn’t. It’s been 2 months and a few weeks since the break up and she didn’t send me a birthday text. It did hurt though.
I find it weird that after I sent her an apology she seemed happy and said I did nothing wrong. She even said it should be her to take the blame.
A lot of questions have risen: Did she not contact me because she has completely moved on? Did she not send me a text because she didn’t think it was the right thing to do? I don’t know …
First of all, no contact does not necessarily mean that your ex will contact you. Purpose of no contact is for you to focus on improving your self esteem and confidence. Also women have the mind set that a man would pursue them if they like them, so during your no contact it’s possible that she thought that you moved on as well.
On the other hand, it is possible that she might have moved on. If she knew you still had feelings for him, she might have decided to not to send you a happy birthday message because might have thought that you would take it in a wrong way?
Personally, I don’t send a birthday message to the guys that I don’t want to be involved with, or that I know the guy would take it as I still have feelings for him so I don’t.
I’m no expert here, these were just my assumptions. I hope things turn out the way you want them to.
Thanks for the reply @Zohar
I don’t think I did anything to show that I still had feelings for her. I didn’t beg, I didn’t plead and I didn’t even text her for the first 2 weeks after the break up. I even took a whole week to answer a text she sent me.
To be perfectly honest I’m literally on the verge of moving on completely myself. The fact that she didn’t bother sending me a text just tells me she doesn’t care any more, which is quite sad really. It hurts me, it really does. I don’t know what’s going through her head at the moment, but like I said I’m on the cusp of just thinking “whatever”. I’m going on a date with another girl soon anyway…
Sometimes even if you don’t show any feelings, the other person knows that you still have feelings for her. For instance, if she dumped you even though you’re not together she will most likely think that you still have feelings for her. It’s been only a short amount of time by now.
Also, there’s no point of keeping your mind busy with the stuff you cannot know like the things going on your ex’s head. There’s no way you can know or change that right now, so focus on yourself.
And, read this article on texting your ex girlfriend.
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