January 1, 2015 at 12:10 pm #22269
And ty. Im happy there are great ppl like you that help as well.
2015 is our year.January 2, 2015 at 9:06 pm #22513AphroditeParticipant
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Me and ex (post break up) both dreamt about having conversations with our grandfathers on the same night. I remember my grandfather was telling me a divine secret about my life, and I was in awe. When I woke up, I remembered all but the secret.
Me and ex talked about how they might be conspiring together up there.
It’s not the first time me and ex have dreamt the same stuff on the same night.
I’ve had many dreams where I know what will happen the next day, down to small details. It’s been a while now though. I’m open to the idea of dream telepathy. So often you think of someone you haven’t seen in ages and they call… It can’t all be coincidenceJanuary 3, 2015 at 8:53 am #22548
Yeah. Ive had dreams that actually ended up happening.
I have to regroup. Ive been staying up late and by the time I go to sleep, I’m too tired to try dream telepathy, or even lucid dreaming.
I love this kind of stuff. 🙂January 3, 2015 at 11:14 am #22559atea1234Participant
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i still dream of my ex almost every night…do you think that means anything?January 3, 2015 at 11:55 am #22566AphroditeParticipant
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@atea1234 it’s really difficult to know whether it means anything or if it is just your subconscious processing things. Usually when my dreams mean something or manifest, they are incredibly strong dreams and not just regular random dreams.
@LAbound yes this stuff is really fascinating:) Get to bed earlier, you! I know you don’t have a job (me neither) but if we can discupline ourselves without a job we can rule the world once we do:PJanuary 3, 2015 at 12:58 pm #22570
Lol trueJanuary 11, 2015 at 3:59 pm #23836maebeParticipant
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Any progress LAbound? I’m very skeptical about dream telepathy, but I find it very interesting… and I’ve had experiences with my ex where we had very similar dreams int he same night, where we were at the same location, same event happened, and nothing triggered the dream. Like, you know how if you watch a show or are thinking about something, you can dream about that or something similar… we never did, it was just random. And little things, like randomly both singing a song we haven’t heard in years, and there was no reason for it…
SO, who knows, maybe it is possible?
Something funny: For the first three months after the break up, whenever I dreamt about my ex, we were always broken up and I was trying to get him back in some way. Or we were seeing each other, but I knew we weren’t in a relationship.
Well, like I said in my recent thread (https://forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/hopeless/), about a week ago I decided to move on because of things that have happened recently. I really, truly, believed he would never want me again (and i’m still thinking that is probably the case), and grieved and cried like he had died. I told myself it was time, and that I had to make an effort to let go, and to rebuild a new life for myself. Maybe it’s not going to be perfect, and I doubt I’ll ever love the same way, if at all, but there’s nothing I can do about that. Anywho… since I made that decision, i’ve been dreaming about him lots again, but now, we are together in my dreams! It’s hilarious. And it’s not like we reconcile in the dreams… we’re just together.
I just find it odd that when I had hope and had a plan to get him back, I was never with him in my dreams… and the moment I decide to let go, now he’s there, with me. It’s probably my mind just trying to stop me from moving on, which is annoying!January 13, 2015 at 10:59 pm #24240
I think it might be a sign that because you chose to let go and start loving yourself essentially. .. it has left a possibility open to get your ex back.
I firmly believe we have to get over the ex to improve our lives and be happy. And that energy we develop by becoming happier, wiser and more complete on our own terms attracts others. Including an ex.
Law of Attraction is better than dream telepathy. 1. It’s more spiritual. 2. Its easier. Lol 3. Its more about you than your ex.
Dream telepathy can help us influence our exes but whats the point when we cant influence ourselves to improve or havent reached a higher level of personal enlightenment. If we pursuade our exes…they will come back but they wont stay. Nothing will be new. Nothing will say that life can be happier and more fulfilling.
Some exes will need to change too. Some of us will be able to change our exes by changing our ways. Other exes are far off from being mature and capable of change…so even if we improve, things will not go the route we thought pissible. In the end though, we will find someone more suitable for us and the shock and heartache will disappear.
Rambling now..lol im doneJanuary 13, 2015 at 11:01 pm #24241
Possible*January 15, 2015 at 6:05 pm #24552unimareParticipant
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Ooh, I also love this kind of stuff! I made myself lucid dream a couple times through training, but I must say I’m quite sceptical about dream telepathy. Have you had any luck? Logically, I don’t think it could work from a distance anyway…
I’ll read up on it tomorrow, I’m science-brained. 😛January 17, 2015 at 11:21 pm #24839
Yeah, I discovered lucid dreaming in the 8th grade. I had a crush on a girl and wanted to dream about her. lol I sound like a creep, but I was almost in love with her. It was by pure accident. I realized I could rewind, fast forward, change things.. I was awake but not awake. I even started studying for tests in my sleep.
I’ll work on the dream telepathy.January 21, 2015 at 7:16 pm #25604ThePhoenixParticipant
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I’ve experienced some strange things while meditating before. One time in particular I remember laying on the ground trying to meditate and something blew in my ear, almost like a dog sniffing around your ear. Strange thing was I was alone. I’ve also had out of body experiences growing up, almost like I was in another person’s body if I was talking to them and looking at myself. I’ get bouts of deja vu as well and it’s almost like I have a choice with that: if I act on what I’ve seen, whatever will happen… if I don’t, it doesn’t. I dodged many fights with my now ex thanks to this.
I’m not sure I’ve mastered something like astral projection or dream telepathy, but I gave it a shot the past few nights. I listen to bineural beats while in bed and have aimed to reach out to my ex in a calm, understanding, pleasant manner. I forgive her for any bad things, tell her I understand what happened, and that it’s okay, I’m moving on. Before I started doing this, it seemed like my ex was apathetic to me and did not really have any focus on me at all. Well, the morning after I attempted dream telepathy, there were a bunch of sad/regretful songs that she was listening to. A few more nights of it and it switched to her being angry.I’ve not done a thing to her or tried to contact her during NC (other than the dream telepathy), and am on day 13. But it makes me wonder if it’s working or just coincidence timing wise.
I do know if I’ve fallen asleep after attempting dream telepathy, I normally end up dreaming about her. I cannot recall the dreams specifically, but the feelings are those of her being angry with me for the breakup, but I wasn’t even the dumper lol.
I also don’t know how much I buy into zodiacs and all that, but we are both water signs. Supposedly water signs are “psychic” but I take it with a grain of salt. I do know I am very intuitive and seem to have a built in lie detector. I also pick up on other’s emotions very easily, even if they’re trying to hide them. Talks like these always fascinate me.January 27, 2015 at 5:49 am #26788patrick dParticipant
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Just wondering what your opinions on this are.
Close to were I am from in Ireland is an old woman living in the grounds of a Castle. She is reknowned all over the Country for her tea leaf reading skills. I was always fairly sceptical of this but I have yet to meet a Person who hasn’t been blown away by her. She is quick and to the Point.
Anyway, being in the crisis that I was, I visited her on 1 January gone by. She said that I had a really bad year last year. Spot on. She said not to worry because this is my year. I will make up for lost years etc. She mentioned about being really settled and she sees a nice Family life with me in the future.
I then asked if I knew this Person (see my post on my Story – 5.5 years, broke up end November). She looked at me and said of course; as if I was an idiot to ask. She said that the ball was in my court. I know what to do. Just score the Goal she said.
Without saying a Name to me, she can only mean my ex. I didn’t even know about the new man at the time and wasn’t really sure what was going on because she was sending so many mixed Messages.
My question; would you pay much Attention to her and what she says? I went before to her years ago for a laugh and every single Thing came to pass. But I feel like it just gives me false hope.
ThanksJanuary 28, 2015 at 11:49 am #27192ThePhoenixParticipant
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That is up to you how you interpret things @patrick d Though for me personally I would believe it. It sounds to me kind of like the LoA could play in with this as well. Keep positive, but continue your journey down your own path!January 28, 2015 at 11:52 am #27195patrick dParticipant
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@ThePheonix Thanks for the reply. What’s LoA as a matter of interest?
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