Do I even have a chance to get my ex girlfriend back?

[xabr2]

So I’ve been with my girl for 2 years. We’ve seen each other like once a week cause she lived 30km away from me. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago and went to collage on the other side of the country right after. She never went to clubs with me, she didn’t like new people. Right now she’s going to clubs and meeting people from all across the city. We got along together really well, could speak about everything and had many amazing moments. She thinks this way too and I’m sure that she’s telling the truth. We messaged each other for like a week after our breakup. She began to dress like a slut and even sent me a photo of her and asked is she looking good cause she’s going to the club. I said that it’s A BIT defiant and she replaid “happens” and went to the club without any more message. I said to her that it’s too painfull for me and if she doesn’t want to give us another chance it would be better if we break contact. So she replied that it will be better if we go our separate ways. I thanked her for everything, she did too and said that it’s too soon to even think about friendship. 5 minutes after that she asked me about my profile picture on facebook cause I uploaded some stupid one but I didn’t replay to that anymore and ignored it. She didn’t message me anything more after that and our conversation is just hanging on her question. Right now I’m one week into no contact. She had our photo on her background on facebook even after our breakup and she deleted it yesterday. So did I even start No Contact good ignoring her question? Won’t she get mad at me? Also is no contact even worth it considering she’ll comeback in december and overall she’s social now and having fun when she always stayed at home in 2 years of our relationship and was so antisocial? She has/had depression and in february this year she said that she’s hearing some voices in her head so she has/had some mental issues. I think that the decision to breakup may be a little bit reliant to that. I don’t think that right now she even has the time to think about me, she has so much going on in her life. Collage, parties, so many new people… Considering she wasn’t sure about her feelings for few months already and the way that she’s acting now I think now she’s just beginning her new life. Do we even have a chance? My plan is to no contact 2 months till december, message her after that for like 3 weeks and then hang out with her when she’ll comeback on holidays. I don’t know what to do anymore, I really want her back ;/

[patricia12]

“She has/had depression and in February this year she said that she’s hearing some voices in her head..” Hearing voices? Really? Obviously she needs psychiatric therapy. And dressing like a slut? Wow, in light of all this, why would you want to try and get her back? Wouldn’t you be better of dating others close to home? Sorry this sounds so negative, just trying to be practical about the matter.

I also responded to your other post in No Contact..

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