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I’ll try and keep it short, my ex [M27] and I [F24] split up two months ago after almost two years together. He ended it with me.
During in those two months my ex once asked to meet up, then decided he didn’t want too. He also asked me several times if i am seeing anyone else, sleeping with anyone else etc..
We bumped into each other over the weekend and he was jealous as I was with other guys. We ended up sleeping together that night.. and morning ha. His mum saw us together and got excited and has told his brother and sister. They are now asking him what is happening, whats going on etc…
He told me that they’ve been asking and he says he doesn’t know what to say, and that we should both see how we feel and make sure we are honest with each other, i asked if this means he wants to see each other a bit more, he said ‘ i don’t know really, what do you want to do’ I replied, i’m worried you are just bored and lonely, he replied ‘well i don’t know, i’m just going to take this week and see how i’m feeling. Ive felt a bit all over the place recently’ I asked if he would chat on the phone he replied i’d rather face to face, i said same but we cant right now.. then a whole hour later he said ok, i just don’t want to get into it all, i’m not ready to do that yet’ On the phone i said the only thing i need to know if you want space he replied ‘ no not necessarily, i don’t want to think about it, i don’t think either us should think, we should just do what feels right’
Do you think he is genuinely confused about his feelings, or is he just bored and after a friends with benefits situation?
@tinametcalf – He sounds and acts confused, but after 2 years, he shouldn’t be. He either wants you or he doesn’t and he’s not asking to reconcile. Since you were willing to have sex with him after he broke up with you, he might want to continue a casual friends with benefits situation instead of a normal relationship, but it might depend on why he broke up with you.
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