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So I tried to turn off his chat for me because he did that as well, I looked in the settings button on his chat and instead of hitting that button I called him but cancelled it right away. I just wrote sry mistake because I thought it would look weird when he saw it. I guess he won’t think it’s a mistake 🙁 but I’ll just keep going on with NC like nothing has happened right? I’m so stupid
You just woke up so I won’t be much help lol
My tired brain doesn’t think it’s a big deal, goodnight!
I’m in a bad mood today lol, I’m trying to stay positive but…
1) People are messaging me saying they hate her new hair yet… they commented on the photo saying “Awesome” and “Love it!” Like wtf really!
I’m also not the biggest fan of her hair, I’m happy for her because she was bold enough to try out a new thing but… I dunno, I hope she likes it ?
2) Trump… sorry if you are a supporter, I was hoping Trump would lose, I’m Canadian, but I was born in America so I have dual citizenship.
On another note, I still love Maddie obviously so… after this week (I may extend it by a few days) how should I go about things?
I know I should text her first but after texting gets comfortable should I move into calls? Do you think I should bring up calls and wait for her to call? What if she never calls!
If it all works out what do I say after calls are working out? How should I bring up meeting in person?
Could you guys answer these questions lol, I know what to talk about I just don’t know how or when to implement the next stages in interaction. Like… what if she starts flirting? I don’t think she’d ask me out because she is stubborn, how would I ask her?
Thanks Anni and Patricia 🙂
Anni didn’t her turn off his chat with you? Doesn’t that mean the call notification and “sry mistake” text won’t showork up?
Correct me if I’m wrong lol
Don’t mind the people who say her hair is awesome and on the other hand say they don’t like it to you, be mature about it and don’t judge the hair yourself. Just tell them that it’s great she tried out something new like you did here 🙂
Trump… we Germans cannot really believe that that happened (again). But that’s another story 😀
Maybe say something about that you wanna show or tell her something (like the good news I mentioned before) but that you’d like to do that in person some time if she is up for it too. Leave her decide, don’t force it. Don’t get upset at her when she is not ready yet. She will be at some point 🙂
If she starts flirting it’s really good, no?
No, he didn’t block me, he only turned it off so that I don’t see anymore when he is online. But he gets the messages and stuff. I believe he did that so he doesn’t see when I’m online either and doesn’t get “hurt” by seeing my name all the time, if that makes sense.
My day is really weird too and I feel so insecure today…Yeah well you have to joke about situations like this sometimes otherwise it’s no fun at all.
Oh what really makes me mad atm is that Trump became president because people like my ex (he was born in America) who were able to vote said “I’m not voting because I don’t want any of them to be president”. And now they all (including him) are liking posts about how horrible it is that Trump became president. I really would like to tell him my opinion to this but instead I’m gonna eat it up and continue NC 😀
okay he just wrote me “it’s okay, don’t worry” and a few min later a big smiley face.
How are you doing so far today?
Good to hear he approached it so well.
I’m not doing very good lol, today’s one of those days. Music isn’t helping, I’m tired and I have no motivation. She seems to be changing so much and there’s nothing I can do about it. She seems so happy without me and it’s very discouraging, everyone thinks this way after a breakup “how can she be so happy?” I’m just scared I want to be with her so much, I just don’t want her to be cold or act like a different person when I contact her in a week.
Help.
Hmmm would meditation help you (maybe yoga or sports in general)? I did that yesterday when I couldn’t distract myself with anything else (I just googled a youtube video). And it really helped 🙂
Or can you call a friend to meet up?
Go out, change stuff on yourself too 🙂 like a new haircut, clothes, sports etc. you will feel better and you will stop thinking about “what if she says/does…. next wekk?”. You should be at the point when you contact her that you will stay calm no matter what happens. I know it’s hard.
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