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I know but until I move out of this flat then we have to talk. Once in out (next wed) I’m going to start no contact! What happens if they txt u during no contact do u ignore them?
Yeah you have to ignore them or they will feel as if you are still there and you are like a second option. You can’t have that man! I gave up all contact and now she won’t stop blowing up my phone! It just takes time man! I know it’s hard but you gotta trust it. But I can see in your situation where you have to have contact but I would try to make it as little as possible
Ye I do, last week I got a bit weak and txt her that won’t be happening again. Once I’m out next week there will be no contact from me for at least a month! But I’m aiming for 5/6 weeks with no contact. I know it will be hard but I’m up for it. I was just asking u because I wanted your opinion on her txt me about my ankle. Surely that’s a good thing Ye. I am going to do no contact
Yeah it is a good thing and you can tell she still loves you and cares for you man! See in our situation it might take up to two months or three months with no contact cause we were in serious relationships that were longer. But that’s good! So how is your ankle? And i wrecked my car yesterday!
I know it’s going to be a long road. Ye better still can’t put much weight on it. No way gutted dude how did u manage that?
Man I was driving on the highway and I went to get off at this exit and it wasn’t lit and it was icy and I slide off and smacked this guardrail and then my friend behind me did the same thing!
Hope your ok dude! Ye good, feeling really positive. Been reading a few books to get myself feeling good & positive. Realise I need a plan, so just putting a plan together. Been looking into new hobbies to keep me busy, bought a ukulele that should along with my circuit training classes keep my mind off things. Can see some light at the end now. And I can finally put some weight on my ankle so all good
I’m doing alright just hanging with my friends! That’s good your doing good! She got mad cause I wouldn’t answer her texts or calls! So I think that is a good sign?
Yep I would say so. Good on you, showing her that u can carry on without her. We’re both doing well that’s good! I’m looking to get out of this flat and having a new start. Too many memory’s of her here. Once I’m out I can start to look to the future. I’m going to work hard to win her back, but I’m going through with no contact first.
What’s your plans? How u going to play it?I’m going through no contact also but I’m gonna change my ways and show her a lot of affection like I should have after the no contact and everything if we just end up being friends and make her fall for me again! I’m glad you have a plan!
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