Confused

[shelden21]

Well she called last night and said she was sorry for the way she acted to me during the break up and she said she loves me and cares for me still a lot and I haven’t talked to her really and she called me today and told me she got car insurance and her car put in her name! She also asked how I was doing since I haven’t really talked to her. She thought it was weird I haven’t texted her or anything so idk. But she also told me she had to act that way to get the point across! But she still said I love you at the end of the calls

[shelden21]

I think she’s starting to realize thag you are really trying to change and be a better person which I think it’s good! I think that some girls get scared and hurt and think you won’t change so you have to prove it to them that you are willing to do anything in your power to get them back

[Gingerone]

Mate, I posted this on the other page. But the best thing you can do I’m my eyes is, and it might be a gamble. I would continue no contact if she txts u fine but u shouldn’t txt or call her. I’m sure you’ll find after a bit that she s thinking about u more and trying to contact u more. If she still says I love u at the end there’s always hope. I’m sure there will be a happy result at the end of your story.

[shelden21]

I hope so too! I think everyone deserves a second chance you know? I think in your situation she’s really starting to miss you and realizing how much she really means to you to be doing all the things your doing! I think it’s a good sign and I really think you two will get back together! Just give it time!

[shelden21]

She’s comjng to get all her stuff! Is that a bad sign?

[shelden21]

She came and got all her stuff but left some behind and she acted all happy and kept giving me hugs and sat by me and she said I love you and the last time I hugged her she wanted me to pick her up! But I’m confused! Is she moving on?

[Gingerone]

I wouldn’t say she was moving on. Why did she leave some ofher stuff behind?
I would try and relax about the situation. she seems like she might want to get back together, or do u think she was being just friendly?

[shelden21]

I think she was just being friendly but idk

[Gingerone]

I don’t understand why she would leave stuff behind. Only explanation is because it’s another reason to pop by and see u stay strong mate. Im sure in 1 or 2 months time we will both be in a better place

[shelden21]

Man I don’t even know anymore! I feel as if she’s really through with me! Yeah she wants to be friends but I can’t do that! That’s too much! So any update on you and your girl?

[Gingerone]

I might have made a big mistake. This Sunday is Chinese new year and there having celebrations in town. So knowing she would enjoy it. I’ve txt to ask if she fancys going for the day watching the parade and the fireworks finale. I know that she will say no but I had to ask. Since we’re meating up next Wednesday for me to give her the rest of her stuff. I thought why not contact her. I’m starting no contact after our final meeting. If she says yes to going to the celebrations on Sunday. Maybe there will be a chance after all.

Mate I feel for u. What’s your plans? Keep contact or no contact for a bit ?

[shelden21]

I’m gonna really go through with the no contact and everything and if it doesn’t work then I know my answer!

[Gingerone]

I feel for u dude, nothing worse. I’m starting to regret asking her now. If she says no I’ll be so upset

[shelden21]

Exactly man it’s like they are playing games with us and not seeing how bad they are hurting us

[Gingerone]

Yep thought it was a bad idea, she said she’s working

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