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She’s trying to open up the lines of communication with you and be friendly now as she was angry with you today.
Your doing everything right 🙂
It is and all my friebds here are keeping me busy but I feel I’ve exhausted all of them talking about my ex.
It’s nice to have people to talk too who are going through the same thing.
It’s so hard not to reply. I can almost see her worry. Is that strange or just me imagining that?
Surely to God the new man doesn’t know about her texting. If i was him I wouldn’t like it.I work but nothing to do today in the Office so on this. What’s your excuse?
I know exactly what you mean. My friends won’t ring anymore. When they do i just don’t talk about it. That’s why it is so important to get active. Do you Play any diddly di? Get into that for a laugh. Big community there
I’m so tempted to send a simple Smiley face back. Just to let her know that I acknowledge the joke. And ease the Tension from earlier. I havent gone into the message yet so technically I haven’t “seen” it
It’s so difficult, Ive not been put in that position yet as he hasn’t text 🙁
It’s not strange at all you know her better than anyone else.
He won’t because she won’t want to upset him also! They might not even be together anymore (do not ask her)
I’m in work too but it’s quiet! This helps keep my mind busy and it’s nice to help others.
I’ve completely lost all hope now
So maybe send the Smiley? Some others said that because he is on the Scene don’t push her to him. Maybe if she gets really angry today she might run to him.
I don’t talk about it anymore because I’m exhausting myself trying to figure it all out. I go the gym and cinema and go for walks a lot, just helps clear the head.
Do not send anything, she’s starting to feel bad the way she treated you this morning, NC means do not fall back into to the trap of constantly texting your ex.
If that’s the case and you feel she will run to him, that proves to you that she’s not just thinkibg about you.
Don’t give up hope. But he won’t take you back unless you are positive. You have to Show big signs of Change. The drinkwas a massive first step that slowed the Progress on everything else. Did the same to me too. But now start doing things. Go to the gym as hard as that sounds. I havent gone yet but I walk 20km a day. I’ve seen couples get back after months and years apart. Do things he wouldn’t expect. Drama and arts are one sure way to impress anybody.
I’m sure that he still has Feelings for you. But you have to knock him off his feet some day. Use that thought as a boost to Keep pushing yourself.
I’m not sure about this stuff, but did you ever read about vibrations? Google it. You know when a place or Person has a bad vibe about them. It’s about that stuff. Build up your Vibration Levels and he will come back. Up to you whether to believe or notOK. I won’t text anything. Defeats the purpose of NC. Thinking again, she might feel comfortable then with a Smiley and feel ok this evening. But no reply will bother her more.
What do you mean about not just thinking about me? Sure if she has him then she is thinking of both of us.
You are right. Text nothing. Now she will start to think that I am gone and really look at him and whether he was worth it.
I’m usually quite positive just having a bad day 🙁
I’m already doing things I’ve joined a choir even though I sound like a bag of cats but it keeps me busy.
No I’ve never heard of it but I will look into it know, anything that helps. Thank you 🙂
It will bother her more why your not texting!
She’s thinking about you even though she has him that’s a good sign, it is a rebound because if she was happy and trying to move on she would have never texted.
She will think of you more because it will drive her crazy with what you are doing
I know a couple at home. Really Close friends. Unbreakable couple. Together 5 or 6 years. BUT…After the first year, he told her that he didn’t want to be with her. That he never loved her anyway and so on. He was fairly cruel. She cried and so on for a few weeks. Then her mother brought her to some man who explained about vibrations. He asked her if her negative thoughts might have caused the break up or something. Anyway, he said that things can be retrieved with hard work and belief. That her vibrations when strong enough would drag him back.
So, she went to work on herself, building up her vibrations every day. 3 months passed. She felt great. Almost high with life every day.Then, out of the blue, after 3 months, he phoned her. She said to him that she has no interest in being friends with him etc. He begged for her back and I have never seen a stronger couple.
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