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  • #27818
    Caz15
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    I don’t think she knows at the moment but defintely wants you in her life.

    Everything is very positive for you at the moment keep moving forward and never look back

    #27819
    patrick d
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    I hope you’re right. The doubting is hard to deal with.
    Just like you. When you send the letter it will bring him back for sure. Just hold out. This time next week you will be getting ready to send it

    #27820
    Caz15
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    I told him not to respond to me if I did text so it would let ME move on and he has respected my wishes.

    #27821
    patrick d
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    See. He is respecting your wishes.

    I can’t deal with just friends. I want her back so much

    #27822
    patrick d
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    He is probably in a forum somewhere talking about you

    #27823
    Caz15
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    The doubting is hard but never doubt yourself as a person. You have done amazing things for you.

    I’m scared to send IT I think I need more time, to be honest I don’t think he will even bother reading it that’s how strong he is.

    #27824
    patrick d
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    He’ll read it. Don’t worry about that. And he’ll love it.

    #27825
    Caz15
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    He is but for me to move on, shows he’s not bothered if I did, she’s not respecting yours because she does want you in her life, but friends is hard so she has to see that she wants you back as her boyfriend.

    I doubt he is anywhere talking about ME as he didn’t even tell his friends or family that he saw me for 4 months after we broke up.

    #27826
    Caz15
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    I hope your right! Your a man so should now what other men think

    #27828
    patrick d
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    Look. If he thought he could get the old you, with the Sex etc back, he will go for it. For sure. That’s the way men work. He doesn’t want the hassle of the bad times but without it then he will go for it.

    She better make her mind up soon about friends or boyfriend. I think she is turning. She is starting to question her decision. Starting to see that it’s all or nothing. But what will she decide. She has put so much in. Would be hard to give up. She will now be where I was at Xmas. Not knowing what was going on.

    #27831
    Caz15
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    I think the bad time keep replaying in his mind and he’s thinking he can do better even though he said he’s not ready to move on, he just wants concentrate on his new job and his son. To be honest he is all I want but I want him to chase me. I’m afraid the more time I give the further he will go!

    She will be back soon she’s doing all the things to start the conversations with you, let her keep thinking what is going you are constantly on her mind then

    #27838
    patrick d
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    Your man needs time and space to get the negativity out of the system. Let him have time.

    My one must be confused. Because I’m confused too by her actions. But she is showing promising signs. Hopefully she will text again in a few days. If she doesn’t I don’t know whether to worry or not.

    #27840
    Caz15
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    Very true! I’ve got rid of it all now and done loads to improve myself I.e no drinking like you and doing things I never normally would…do you think he will contact me or I’ll have to send the magic letter?

    She will text again you have no worries, I said to you yesterday that she would text and you were adamant that she wouldn’t and she did!

    It’s very promising. 🙂

    #27842
    patrick d
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    Ha. That’s true you did say that. Do you think she will want me back in the end?

    I think you may have to send the letter. You did say not to contact and fair play to him he didn’t. But you have what 12 days to go? Lots of time yet for him to contact.

    #27844
    Caz15
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    She defintely wants you back, like I said if she was happy moving on and with this new bloke (which we don’t even know if they are still together) she would have not text you. She wants to get close to you again.

    I’m scared to send it but he has respected it which makes me more worried he’s not bothered about me moving on.

    When you say 12 days left it’s mad because I can’t believe that’s all I have left in the 30 days, when I first done it I thought yuck it’s so far away! thank you for reminding me.

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