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Can i get her back?

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  • January 30, 2015 at 3:16 am #27696
    patrick d
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    I hope so. I hope i’m not pushing her away. I hope she wants me back soon, if at all

    January 30, 2015 at 3:20 am #27697
    Caz15
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    Your not pushing your giving her space to see what she wants.

    It will take time and patience is key, I feel like that also but I will do the 30 days and if I need to I’ll do more.

    January 30, 2015 at 3:22 am #27698
    patrick d
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    I suppose. She seemed to be already thinking during the week. As you said, they were not the texts of ‘friends’. Another week of NC should have her thinking. Or not.

    You are doing so well

    January 30, 2015 at 3:29 am #27701
    Caz15
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    She was thinking and Her angry response should emotion, exactly the more you keep away the more she will think.

    Sometimes I don’t feel like I am

    January 30, 2015 at 5:05 am #27717
    patrick d
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    You are doing well. The advice you are giving on this to everybody is fantastic. It will leave you prepared for such a healthier relationship next time around. Be you, the old bubbly you. Think of yourself more often, if not always.

    Thank you for your encouragement. I will continue and see what time brings. But the Emotion in the Messages i received give me good hope. But I am realising every day that I can survive without her. That life goes on.

    January 30, 2015 at 5:13 am #27719
    Caz15
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    Thank you means a lot, you are also doing the same and it’s nice to have the support.

    I felt like myself last night! I was laughing and joking and I didn’t think of him for a good 10 minutes I know that doesn’t sound a lot but when you have gone through what we have 10 minutes not to think of them is a long time 🙂

    It is good, always have hope it’s a wonderful emotion to have. You can do it and stay strong

    January 30, 2015 at 5:20 am #27720
    patrick d
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    Thank you. I have hope. Maybe falsely, but I am now fairly sure that she is not over me at all yet. The Emotion showed that.

    January 30, 2015 at 5:20 am #27721
    patrick d
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    And yes, 10 minutes is a Long time. Can’t remember when I went so Long last

    January 30, 2015 at 5:33 am #27722
    patrick d
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    Oh. Oh. More contact. You there Caz?

    January 30, 2015 at 5:36 am #27723
    Caz15
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    I’m here! OMG what has she said?

    January 30, 2015 at 5:37 am #27724
    Caz15
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    You should definitely not have false hope now!

    January 30, 2015 at 5:41 am #27725
    patrick d
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    She sent a photo. She has a work experience in a Hospital in Berlin in the emergency department (A & E to us). That would be something that we have celebrated.
    That is the first time in months that she has told me about anything that she is doing. She wouldn’t even let me know when she was travelling away with her Family for Christmas.

    January 30, 2015 at 5:42 am #27726
    patrick d
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    I’m so happy for her. Good on her. That’s a great opportunity. But me not replying might take the gloss off it. I miss her so much right now. I feel like crying

    January 30, 2015 at 5:43 am #27727
    patrick d
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    The photo was of her Computer Screen of the message saying that she was accepted

    January 30, 2015 at 5:45 am #27728
    Caz15
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    This is so positive, she’s defintely missing you and wanted to share this experience with you as she knows how happy you would have been for her.

    Please keep strong and don’t reply, cry if you have too don’t keep the emotions bottled up.

    She is defintely reaching out but your doing all the right things.

    Keep talking to me

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