Can i get her back?

[patrick d]

Chin up. It will work.

[Caz15]

Thanks Patrick 🙂

But I know him so well and I think it was just sex he wanted as he said before a while ago it took him 37 years to find me and I’m the best he ever had.

I can see that my negativity scared him and I couldn’t be the happy bubbily person around him.

I’m having a good day just trying to see the reality of it all.

[patrick d]

Feeling pretty down tonight. So scared that I’ll never get her back. She might just stay with this other man for good. He’s probably the now. 🙁

[Caz15]

Please don’t feel down, it is so natural to feel this way.

But you have so must positivity the last couple of days with the texts and everything.

He is just a rebound she wouldn’t be texting you if it was anything serious

[patrick d]

Are you sure about that? What if she just sees me now as an old friend? An old friend might text. But wouldn’t day they are worried maybe. I don’t know. You’re a woman. Explain the messages please

[Caz15]

How can she see you as an old friend? Do you see her that way?

She text and you didn’t respond and then she got angry, not being funny but I don’t get angry with my friends if they don’t respond! I don’t say I’m worried about them if they don’t reply.

She’s is in love with you but is figuring a lot out in her mind and wants to make sure you are there when she’s ready.

Honest opinion she’s considering you both give it another go.

[patrick d]

You think that really? Or just saying that to make me feel good? I got a feeling something had changed.
But the other guy? Maybe you are right. She might think that I’m going

[patrick d]

The thing though is that it should be me that is ready. I messed it up?

[Caz15]

Yes I do really think that because I left a relationship to be with my now ex and never once texted my ex ex! I was done and had moved on, she’s texting you whilst with someone else is a very big sign!

I’m not here to make you feel better but realise she’s not done.

You take the time now until you are ready and when you are go for it! yes you had 1 mistake but you know now it’s all about you.

Be strong 🙂

[patrick d]

1 mistake? Smiley? I’ll push on now with nc for another while. Thanks caz.
Btw, check out the weird stuff myself and pheonix are talking about. We started a new topic because we hijacked another one

[Caz15]

It was a little blip and like I said we have all done it. Concentrate on you.

I’ve been reading and its really interesting and weird 🙂

Day 9 for you and day 17 for me 🙂

[patrick d]

Ha. If outsiders read What’s going on here we would be locked up. I’m really enjoying this site. We have a new topic page. Bonds and stuff. Join in. Good night

[Caz15]

hahaha you would!

I’ll have a good read.

Get some sleep night

[patrick d]

How are you today Caz? Still no word my end since the texts during the week. Maybe over the Weekend.

[Caz15]

Hey, I’m good thanks! How are you? Nothing my end either it’s Day 17.

Even if you don’t hear over the weekend don’t stress she will be back in touch.

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