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Heres hoping! she will be going mad thinking why as he not been in touch and you need to use this to your advantage.
I have done all I can now to prove to him so we will wait & see but I am using this time to work more on myself and get back to the fun loving, bubbly girl he knew & fell in love with.
That’s the attitude. You will do it. I have a good Feeling about you 2. You Sound great today
And even though I handed back some power last night, I have her on the ropes now. I have the power Overall. If this Weekend passes with no contact then she will Freak out again.
The ball is in my court the old woman said (see my Chat under not my ex – dream telepathy with pheonix)I do get a good Feeling about you. Trust me
I feel brill, I start my new job on Monday, I’ve been walking and have lost weight and getting toned!
You are getting the power back by everyday you don’t text or call. She will be wondering over the weekend, she’s scared your moving on.
I have a very good feeling about you both 🙂 thank you he’s the love of my life and I pushed him away.
Remember keep strong and positive! 🙂
I’ve been doing a mathematical graph as to were things are. The graph was developed based on what has happened and projecting that into the future. Assumptions have been made e.g. that he is a rebound.
Although yesterday was a slip and the trend went down, it will be rising again continuing on the projection albeit with approx. a day lost. It was a slip but wouldn’t be enough to Warrant a complete reverse to the start as she is not back in the same Frame of mind as 9 days ago and neither am I.
So looking at the trend, I am expecting contact again on thursday of next week. That will be the day that her Feelings for me overtake her feelings for the new man.
Then on the Weekend around valentines it will come again but stronger; looking for a Meeting perhaps.
We will see. But just thought I would share that
He is a rebound 100%, it was a little slip yesterday but you have learned from it and starting to get stronger.
I wish I had one of those graphs lol.
Thank you for sharing but she does love you and needs time to come to that conclusion.
I know she does love me. I can see that now. She can’t…yet. But it’s Close. The maths don’t lie! HAHA.
And oddly, I had a gut Feeling or a Vision or whatever that i spoke with pheonix about. The maths and that vision are perfectly in sync. I didn’t force that. I found out after. Isn’t that strange?Hi Caz. How are you now?
Go out and enjoy yourself after work tonight. If you feel down then I will check here from time to time, but you seem to be doing very well today.
I have gotten a lot better as the day has gone on. I will continue with nc until i see fit to stop. If the other man was off the Scene and she needed help regarding studying or something I think i would go in false friends mode. It worked before! Went to help when she was sick and 3 weeks later she was telling me she loved me.
Pheonix said some nice things. Said that I have the power and that the Smiley was no big deal because it was 5 hours later. I will subtract a few days off for that. lol
And whatever happens with either of our stories, we should Keep in touch. We will meet in Baile Atha Cliath some day. For miwadi of course!
I’m sure one of us will feel like shite over the next few days at some Point. That’s what this is for.
Hey Patrick,
I’m up and down at the minute! I feel its too late and water under the bridge, I’m definitely going out tonight, just going for a meal and soft drinks.
I’m so glad you are feeling better about it all, your right to do it until you feel right and to support her if she’s struggling with false friendship.
You do have the power and will gain more over the next few days!
we will definitely keep in touch 🙂
I really want to text him today I miss him 🙁
Do NOT text him. Think of how bad I felt because of a Smiley. You have come this far now. You can Keep going.
Stick the full 30 days, come back a new woman and he will throw himself at you. He still loves you. Not the old bad you, but the you inside. The strange drunk you that came out every now and again is gone now. That was the you he didn’t love.
Stick to your guns of 30 days. It’s for you and not him. Bit like when Clarke kent had to go to the arctic and become superman again. lol
My Situation is a bit different because she has already reached out over 2 days and let some of her Feelings be known. But then again, she might still have the new man so that confuses things. But she mustn’t care for him. She would have left that angry Chat as it was yesterday. The inside joke told a lot. And I bet she knew what she was doing too. She was reaching to say that she hasn’t forgotten; even the Little things.
Your man will come back. It will take time. Rome wasn’t built in a day. Have your letter ready.
I know I don’t want to go back to the start but I miss him.
He knows I don’t drink anymore and I proved that to him when I saw him over the 4 months after we broke up and he wanted to try but he did say 3 weeks ago it wasn’t go to work as he didn’t feel the same anymore after telling me in September he was madly in love with me so I’m terribly confused.
She is definitely reaching out to you, she wouldn’t have go in contact if she had any feelings for him.
Tell me, were you still Feeling negative and desperate and needy when you last spoke to him. That rubs off you know. That will be the difference the next time. And on a day when you feel really really good with yourself, write the letter or rewrite it. Feelings can come through I believe.
Oh my god thinking about it I was, I was still angry that he broke my heart and he had his new place and job and getting a new car, I told him I hated him (sober) then the next day I was horrible by text.
Then 16 days I apologised about my behaviour towards him and said I just want to leave the pain and hurt behind and not keep looking backwards, he read them and didn’t respond and I’m on day 16.
Ah now. That changes everything. Of course he wants you. He wanted Sex 2 weeks ago. Your negativity was dragging him down. Scaring him.
Now go out and celebrate that. Forget him for tonight.
But believe me, he wouldn’t want sec if he didn’t want more.
He loves you still. Can you see it now?
Have faith.
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