Can I get ger back?

[Christian]

Hello!

So this is my first time writing here. I need some help to get my ex back.

Okey so my ex broke up with me 4 days ago, we had a distance relationship for about 3 months. The 2 first months were just perfect. We had fun, we did things and I could really see that she had feelings for me. We met each other every weekend until the last month came. She had to work a lot during the weekends and also had much in school, so we couldn’t see each other during this time. We still called on FaceTime every day several times to keep in touch when we had time, until one day where she asked me what we should do with our relationship. She said she had lost feelings for me and didn’t know if it was because of our time away from each other or because of getting tired of the distance. I then told her that we need to meet and see what the problem is then, but she didn’t want to see me because she thought it would feel weird with all the thoughts in her head.
So I drove to her without telling to see how she reacted. She got abit mad at the beginning because she was so tired after work, I could see it on her when she stepped outside work. But after a while of talking it started to get good again. We had fun and kissed. She said we could meet on Friday, but still needed some time to think about how she want to do. So I gave her her time to think.
2 days went and she then told me that we can’t meet on Friday because she isn’t free, as she thought she was. So I got a little mad. I overreacted and we got into a very unnecessary fight. I asked if she could forgive me, but she didn’t know. And 2 days after that she broke up with me.
When she broke up with me she said that she needed some time for herself, because of all the work and school she haven’t been herself.. Stopped carrying about everything. Also when she do find herself she doesn’t want to be in a distance relationship because she wants someone close she can just go to without planning.
But still she also said that I was the best thing she have ever had and probably won’t find anyone better.

The day after we broke up she said she still wants to have contact with me and have called me like nothing have happened. But when I text her she is all rude and short, sometimes doesn’t even answer.

So now we have had no contact for 2 days. Do you think I can somehow get her back after no contact for a couple of weeks?

[Needhelp123]

The same happend to me tbh.. he was busy, I got tired of it and started an unnecessary fight and he couldn’t handle it.. (also LDR)

The thing is, we broke up before.. for 2 months and I got him back then.. so maybe, just maybe I ll get him back this time too.

I have started NC a few days ago.. and it’s hard, but if that’s the only thing we can do.. so be it.

Just stay positive and hope for the best.
I don’t think anyone who really loved u can forget about you in a few days… I don’t think that’s possible.

Good luck!

[Christian]

Thank you for giving me some hopes 🙂 I really hope this will work. She can be a little bit hard/cold sometimes… She also told me this, that she is really bad on showing her feelings sometimes.
But when I was with her, I could really feel her love.

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