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February 16, 2015 at 3:23 pm #31327
I’m thinking it’s a test but then again idk cause if she fell out of love with me four months ago then idk? And she said she was moving on so so should i
February 16, 2015 at 3:49 pm #31334Are u sure she fell out of love with u or does she just not feel in love with u at the moment.love is strange thing. My girlfriend said she felt different but her actions and they way she looked at me told me different. All I can say is stay positive and don’t give up. If u love her and u think there’s love left in her heart for u anything could happen.
February 16, 2015 at 4:17 pm #31339I will never give up
February 16, 2015 at 4:57 pm #31345Good to hear. Let me know how u get on, if u need to talk don’t hesatate. Sometimes it’s easier to chat to a stranger. Chin up fella ✌️
February 16, 2015 at 6:38 pm #31352Thanks! But idk it seems so hard and dumb to just let go for a whole month and then try to reattach like If you really think about it you never see anything about a successful relationship on here or how it actually worked I feel like it’s more focused on getting over your ex than it is getting your ex back
February 16, 2015 at 7:38 pm #31360@shelden21
Can you make a numbered list of all your questions? About your girl and your relationship and stuff. I’d be happy to answer them all!February 16, 2015 at 7:49 pm #31362What do you mean?
February 16, 2015 at 7:57 pm #31363I feel like we’re just going in circles here hahaha so make a list of all your problems and questions and I’ll help you with them!
February 16, 2015 at 8:14 pm #31365okay so let me give you an update of whats going on
1. she told me she was dropping out of nursing schooland focusing on creative images with hairstyling with her friend
2. she told me to move on cause she’s moved on and she doesn’t feel that way about me but she still says she loves me at the end of a call
3. her stuff is still at my house and it has been two weeks since we broke up so it is hard to start no contact
4. i’m just lost on what to do because I love her so much and I don’t know if the nc thing will really work or if it will just push her away more? I’ve already lost the most important thing in my life which is my mom, I can’t lose the second most important thing to me.February 16, 2015 at 8:59 pm #31374is it too late for us to get back together if she stopped losing feelings in October?
February 17, 2015 at 4:54 am #31437“she still says she loves me at the end of a call”
So she still has feelings for you.
“her stuff is still at my house”
Hang on to them. Don’t contact her asking if she wants her stuff back. Make her come to you. She should be the one to ask for her stuff.
But if she still hasn’t gotten her stuff back until now, I think that means she still wants to go back.
And NC will work. Trust me. NC will make her forget about the bad stuff in your relationship and miss you.February 17, 2015 at 5:50 am #31443No contact is very hard, I find myself getting worse, the longer I go on. I’m thinking she might have all ready forgot about me. I’m finding it strange she hasn’t got in contact!!
February 17, 2015 at 6:14 am #31449Man that’s how I’m feeling too! I feel like she already moved on and forgot about me
February 17, 2015 at 6:23 am #31452I feel like she’s already forgotten about me and just waiting to get her stuff when I’m out of town
February 17, 2015 at 6:28 am #31453I hope it’s my head just playing tricks on me, the last time I seen her she seemed sad and when we kissed & hugged for the last time. It seemed that she wasn’t sure. Especially before she moved out we spooned every night fell asleep in my arms. Even told me I was her world. And since no contact she’s put up a facebook status saying new chapter new start feeling happy! What’s all that about last time I seen her it was the opposite. And it seemes she checkes her facebook very often. Could she be looking to see what I’m doing / or just chatting to someone else. This no contact I have good days and bad days. It’s strange I think I’m reading into things too much !!!
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