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March 8, 2015 at 6:49 pm #35043
So, my ex pretty much admitted that we wanted me back. I asked him if he was serious about it and he said yes. We were talking last night and this morning. This morning he decided that we were going to hang out tomorrow. He sounded rather happy to be talking to me again, calling me babe a lot, sending all these hearts. I called him dork face (to make him smile, not to be mean) and I guess he got pissed and said “Don’t. It’s not happening now.” I apologized and he said “We aren’t there. Not yet. Goodnight.”
I’m so confused and kinda freaking out…
March 8, 2015 at 6:51 pm #35045Let him cool off a bit now… And wait to see if he says something for tomorrow. How did you get there? I think a lot of us would apreciate knowing that 🙂
March 8, 2015 at 6:56 pm #35047I feel so bad for doing that. I’m so confused about what he told me…
And I just didn’t talk for awhile. He randomly flirts with me sometimes. We’ve been broken up for 4 months. I replied to one of his snaps and he called me babe after that and confessed that he missed cuddling with me and missed spending time with me and said that he wants me back. All last night, he kept calling me babe and this morning. Until I called him dork face :/
March 8, 2015 at 6:56 pm #35048Nice!
Can you give a small summary what happened and what you did to reach out?March 8, 2015 at 7:03 pm #35050He did most of the reaching. Or all of it. We never stopped having contact. Well, I did NC for about a month and he got mad cause I wasn’t replying to his snaps. Can you explain what he meant?
March 8, 2015 at 7:16 pm #35052calling him like that probably made him mad. let him cool off a bit and when he will be ready and not mad anymore he will probably text you. if you apologized, good. now remember, next time when u talk if he calls u sweet call him something sweet back,or dont say anything that might be lovely or sweet, even less rude.
March 8, 2015 at 7:28 pm #35057He was calling me love and Kenzie baby, and he used to call me those all the time. It just bothers me about what he said :/ I don’t get it
March 8, 2015 at 7:30 pm #35058he wanted tomeet up and he was sweet to you, but i think u ruined it with saying that. u need to understand that.. just let him cool off a bit. u did apologize let him get over it now. you need to choose ur words more carefully.
if he calls u like that he wants u to call him something sweet too, not dork face or wahtever u said..
March 8, 2015 at 7:32 pm #35060I said it be funny. We used to call each other weird names too. He called me lemur once, liek the animal lol. I didn’t mean it to be mean. I just wanted to make him smile
March 8, 2015 at 7:35 pm #35061ja at that point u were together and all.. now u are trying to win him back and this is not the right way i think. also dont over think too much just..accept that u did wrong with calling him that and remember next time to call him smthn sweet 🙂
i got my ex back the strangest way, tho not ready to commit yet but also that will come. oh btw… what did he say to u when u aologized?
March 8, 2015 at 7:38 pm #35062Nothing yet. He’s at work. And I feel bad for doing. I shouldn’t have, I just wanted to make him smile :/
March 8, 2015 at 7:39 pm #35063I don’t think he’s going to talk to me tonight :/ I think I screwed up though
March 8, 2015 at 7:39 pm #35064give him a few days. and dont text him. when he will be calm he will reach out i hope
March 8, 2015 at 7:44 pm #35065We were supposed to hang out tomorrow…guess he doesn’t want me back now…
March 8, 2015 at 8:26 pm #35071I just don’t understand what he meant by “It’s not happening now” and I kinda get the “We aren’t there. Not yet”. idk about tomorrow though :/
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