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August 29, 2014 at 5:13 pm #5437
After messing things up I have to say that I didn’t follow the guide. I called before I texted to make first contact after NC. Who ever reads this, do yourself a favor. If you think you are OK to call him, don’t do it. You are not. Although I didn’t mean to, I think I came across cold. When I called him, he called me back instantly, and suggested we meet up. I was using getting my stuff back as an excuse to call, and I didn’t jump to set up a specific day to meet. Needless to say, I haven’t heard from him since. I called him back 2 days after the first contact call and left a message. That was friday. No response. Monday I decided to send him a feel good text hoping to maybe undo some of what I screwed up. No response. I sent him another feel good text today. No response yet. That’s it for now. I think I might have already over done it with the texts, so I won’t text him again for atleast a week. Some inspiring words would be helpful right about now.
August 29, 2014 at 5:29 pm #5440It could’ve been the excuse you gave him. Plus, if you were accidentally cold sounding..it probably refreshed the bad shit that happened to cause the breakup.
Keep cool. Stop texting. I honestly would wait longer than a week to contact him again. That’s just me though..
Next time, whether it’s calling or texting..have a game plan.
These words may not inspire, but just hang in there. Stay strong.
August 29, 2014 at 5:56 pm #5443It’s funny. At the time my game plan was originally to leave a pleasant voice mail, which I did, but he called me back while I was leaving it. I didn’t think I would actually talk to him!
August 30, 2014 at 3:05 am #5485Can I ask who did the breaking up?
August 30, 2014 at 6:37 am #5491He did
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