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Hello there
She ended our relationship lasting 1.5 years. I was almost addicted to her and I couldn’t do anything without her. After leaving me, I expanded my friends’ circle to improve my self-confidence and started to love myself. 2 months has passed since we left. We’re studying at the same school, and every time she sees me, she escapes me. but then she started say hi when she saw me but but she’s still scared of spending time with me.I learned something about her last night from a friend. She still loved me and suffered so much when she left me, but now she is very happy and forgot me And she does not feel anything about me.Her best friend told my friend. And on the night I saw her with a man, maybe they had a date. I still don’t know if I can win her back. She does not öpen my instagram stories.She used to say that she liked the photos I took during our relationship. and she would support me. I bought a machine and I’m taking photos now. About 3 months later her birthday is coming up and I’m going to give her an album of photos I took as a birthday present, but I don’t plan this as a gift of reconciliation. I just want to show her that I care, and I want to do it friendly. what do you think? Is it okey for break no contact period?Be polite whenever you see her and just smile if sees you.
Sounds like her birthday is past the no contact. So.. go ahead and give her the album.
today our common friend said that she spoke with my ex. my ex wanted to talk to me as a friend, but she said she did not want anything as flirting. then my friend told me “I think she forgot you and continues her life and she does not find you attractive anymore and my friend Said that her actions are Obvious. So i had no idea.I guess there is no hope for me, and I still don’t know how to talk to her as a friend when i still loves her. may not like me again.
Nobody “forgets” someone they knew for a year and a half. It’ just that she doesn’t seem to want a relationship with you. If she wants to talk as a friend, go ahead and talk to her if you think you can handle it and give her the picture album you made.
Thank you patricia. I am gonna meet her with our friends. And i hope that we can talk without any problem. I can use this to show her that i am a different person now. And if it works maybe i can change her opinions about old me.
I know this is a little late. But do not fall into the Just Friends trap. It’s a hell of a lot more attractive to politely say, no thanks, I am not interested in being friends. To take that offer you are just giving her the message that you will be her safety net and she can take all the time she needs to play the field and you will never leave. And she will never come back to you if that is the perspective she has fo you. If you say no the friends thing, you are showing her that you are confident and strong enough to go on with your life without her and that is the kind of thing that will get her chasing you. If this is all too late and you already accepted the just Friends role, it’s not too late to change your mind and say sorry this friends thing isn’t working for me.
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