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Hi everyone, i was wondering if anyone could help me with a piece of advice.`
I ve been in a relationship for about 3 years now.
6 months ago we had the first break up and it was awfull and was caused by him.
In the following months we had a lot of figthing and i started Nc but it only lasted for two weeks because during that nc i was out of city an he came for me and found me (even if i don’t know how).
The relationship had rough patches, meanwhile we were appart he dated a lot of girls but he constantly kept tabs on me as well.
Now “we re back togheter”, We talk on a regular basis on a phone, we visit our relatives as a couple. Actually for the people who don t know us too well, we are the perfect couple. But, the trurth is that we are growing apart, we are constantly check on each other via phone or social networks. I do it because i care, he does it for posession.
We started seing each other very seldom and he is always grumpy .
As well i changed my job and my neighbourhood, so it is less time for us to meet and more phisical distance,apart for the emotional one.I don’t know if he,s seeing someone behind my back or we re just growing apart. Please help, starting NC right now would be like dumping him. And he does a lot of victimisation and nothing is ever working with him.
What do you suggest, is Nc in this sticky situation to any use? I m blured as hell right now.
Thank you in advance guys!!!
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