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June 6, 2016 at 8:37 am #62511
So I’m doing the no contact process.
I’ve actually had to start over a few times.
The guy I’m trying to keep my distance from is in the same social chat site and gaming group I’m in, so I have had to just stop visiting those places all together to stop running into him online.
I’ve hit the 11th day and he sent me a private message thru the chat site (he could see I was online), that he deleted ooVoo (an online voice/video chat program, it’s the only other place I have contact with him) and if I ever had to reach him, that the forums were the only place now.
That shook me up right quick. I wanted to respond immediatly and ask if he meant he deleted the program from his computer and phone, or if he just deleted me as a contact, and I wanted to ask him why he was doing this.
I’m scared that if I don’t respond to him he’ll take it as me being mean and cold.
June 6, 2016 at 8:58 am #62556Don’t do it — you got this.
June 10, 2016 at 9:10 pm #62769Exactly
June 11, 2016 at 10:24 pm #62828Thanks Jupiter, Timmy. I kept my distance– and I’m on Day 17!!
I have another huge worry tho. We’ve never met in person, we had a distance thing going on, and communicated online. I was going to travel to see him, but then he broke things off before then.
A cooncidence has popped up, and my workplace is actually sending me to the city he lives in, this month!! After my 30day no contact ends, I only have two days before I leave.
I don’t know If I should tell him that I will be in his neighborhood or how to even tell him, after staying silent for so long and then just with two days left, let him know that I am going over.
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