Do I still have a chance?

[Crystal6677]

So I told him I already started to see someone else.
Do I still have a chance?
Will he just emotionally giving up?

He insisted he can’t give me enough time. So I should see someone else.

[Crystal6677]

I dated him for 7 months.
The last 2 months, he was so busy. His career started a new direction.
So he didn’t have enough time for me..
I still texted him and chatted with him regularly. But he obviously didn’t have time.
He encouraged me to find someone who can have more time for me. Saying he had to put career first.
So the last week, it went strong. So I told him I started to see someone else to throw him off.
Now we don’t talk anymore….
He asked me “how is your bf?” 3 days later. But that’s it.
Do I need to start NC? Or just give up?

[LauraH]

Hey

My guess is that he is not as emotionally involved in you as you are in him; timing is definitely a strong factor but so is his lack of emotional investment. I have a theory – when people are not emotionally invested, they will come up with countless other reasons to break up a relationship because few will actually admit it. Sad, I know.

There is not much you can do about him right now other than step back, follow a strict NC (absolutely no contact) and rebuild your life without this guy. If he contacts you meanwhile, do not respond. Just cut him loose. Later on, once he has sorted out his career and wants to get back in touch, you can weigh your options if you are still single. Good luck!

[timmybroke]

Like laura said ; he is not as emotionally involved as u are but 3 days later he texted u how is ur bf ? Even if it seems like its nothing .
Im a guy and if he didn t care about you at all he wouldn t text u period .
But again he needs to want u more than he does right now ;and understand that u need a little more time so i think the N/C ll b great dont even answer

[Crystal6677]

He texted me again after 3 days. Asking me how u doing. And he would change for me if I still want it.
I replied…. We talked and talked.
And he told me he would come to see me.
(He is on an island working.)
I hesitated but I said ok.
But the day he supposed to come. He didn’t!!!!!
And he didn’t even reply my message.
I saw him on whatsapp.
I asked him what’s going on.
He didn’t reply….
I am soooo sad…
What is this….
Should I keep NC?

[Crystal6677]

He is working on one island. That’s why he said he doesn’t have time for me now.
And he didn’t fly to see me.
He said he would.
I waited and waited.

He sometimes childish. If he did something wrong or something disappointing me. He hide.
Do you think it’s what it is?
Or he just not interested?

Should I NC again?

[Crystal6677]

He is married before. But divorced 10 years ago.
He still talks to his ex wife though…
Why is that?
And can a divorced guy still have passion in a new relationship?
Or he just want someone cuz he is lonely? But he can never love again ?

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