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January 7, 2015 at 5:30 pm #23216
We have been together for 2 years she left me because she didn’t feel he same for me and while she lost feelings for me she met this guy and started liking him so she thought she she can’t like this guy if she loves me and then thought that she clearly must not love me if she likes this guy so she left me and went off with this guy
Basically I started NC and in the 3rd she popped up to me on WhatsApp and I read her message and didn’t say anything. She then popped up today on the 5th day and she said “why ignore me” with a lot of those whatever faces on WhatsApp it looks like
January 7, 2015 at 5:52 pm #23221do not reach out
January 7, 2015 at 6:25 pm #23227So ignore again ? 🙁
January 7, 2015 at 11:09 pm #23269If she keeps messaging you, you can simply say that you need some time and space.
January 8, 2015 at 3:33 am #23283So should I ignore her now and say that the next time she messages me?
January 8, 2015 at 8:52 am #23311Just do it now.
January 8, 2015 at 9:01 am #23315Okidokes so just say that I need some time and to just leave me alone for a while ?
Btw what’s up with Kik
January 8, 2015 at 9:13 am #23318Okay so I said to her
‘Hey sorry just been super busy :(‘
‘I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you can understand’
‘Hope all is well anyway’what do you guys think ?
January 8, 2015 at 9:42 am #23241My ex broke it off after 4 year relationship. He emailed me after 9 days of nc I am not sure what to do as I don’t want to push him away and before I initiated nc we were heading to friends status but he said something unkind and was sending iced messages so I started nc. Help I am confused
January 8, 2015 at 9:57 am #23327What was the reason for the relationship breaking up?
January 8, 2015 at 10:23 am #23329kik caused my phone to shut down repeatedly. So I uninstalled it.
January 8, 2015 at 3:03 pm #23396LA I will try find another messaging service lol add me on WeChat 🙂 My name is ‘Arjun Kataria’
So this is how the conversation went:
(H) is her and (M) is me
(H) 5th January @ 23.07 – Hey 😀
(M) 7th January @ 22.18 – Oiiii -_- -_- -_-
(M) 7th January @ 22.19 – Why ignore me -_-(M) 8th January @ 15.10 – Hey sorry just been super busy 🙁
(M) 8th January @ 15.11 – I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you understand
(M) 8th January @ 15.11 – Hope all is well anyway
(H) 8th January @ 15.36 – It’s okay yeah don’t worry
(H) 8th January @ 20.37 – Got a lot of stress at the moment tbh a lot of stuff I’m trying to do
(M) 8th January @ 20.44 – oh okay good luck lol
(H) 8th January @ 20.47 – Well that’s nice -_- -_-wadya think 🙁 was I too harsh 🙁 too blunt 🙁 I feel bad 🙁 I want to make her relieved of her stress 🙁
January 8, 2015 at 3:31 pm #23410hey, found it!
Well the way you wrote the last was a bit hars, you could have written “sorry to hear, it will ba allright im sure=) take care”
But it is what it is, so keep on the NC.January 8, 2015 at 3:35 pm #23411shall i say it now instead 🙁 don’t want her upset with me 🙁
January 8, 2015 at 3:42 pm #23412was this today? then maybe, “sorry for being like that, sorry to hear about your situation, im sure it will all be allright, take care”
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